my husband and i do the same thing every friday night, dinner and drinks or a movie , what else is there i'm going nuckingfux, my husband has had a affair and i feel sad and sick that i'm not exciting anymore..
2006-10-27 05:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shame on you for not finding something more exciting to do then. You don't know how to change things up? Can you not maybe break away from the norm? Maybe buy something sexy to wear and tell him you will be driving tonight and drive straight to a hotel that you already registered at? If he has had an affair, then that should tell you that he is tired of the same old thing (just as you are). You should be taking matters into your own hands and doing something about it! No wonder nothing is exciting anymore if you are always doing the same thing. Jump out there and do something sexy and surprise him! It will cost about the same as dinner, drinks and a movie I am sure!
2006-10-27 05:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you have to create a date night deliberatelly something is wrong. Likewise, if you have to "work" on making something work, that's a sign that it's gone wrong. Furthermore, maybe he is bored and tired of the relationship, that happens. Why is it that people think they have make something work. What is wrong with realizing that maybe it's not working? I am in a relationship now, and I love this person, but guess what, she knows that if she ever gets tired of me, she is free to leave, just that fast. Life is to short to be misserable. And further more, no one should need or be dependant on anyone. That only causes problems. if your not getting the attention you need, find another way to satisfy your needs. In time you may find that you are stronger, happier and more in control of your life. But most important, just be yourself, and find happiness. Nothing wrong with that. You would be amazed at just how in control we all are over our own lives and happiness if we just let ourselves do that.
2006-10-27 05:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because HE had an affair has nothing to do with who you are.
He's the one who lacks values...NOT YOU! Strut your stuff, and others will show you how exciting you are. This in turn will have him crawling on his knees. Dont give in too easily. He should suffer some, for a mere ounce of your interest!
2006-10-27 05:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a fun evening, go bowling or miniature golfing. And if you don't want to be around your husband then leave his sorry cheating *** at home and go out with some friends. Go to a club and get crazy and a little drunk and flirt with other guys and make yourself feel good!
2006-10-27 05:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by hideemosquito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry what your sick bastard of a husband done to you, I think it is time you got a divorce, and move on with your love life.
2006-10-27 05:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun take control of this situation men love when a women gets wild. try role playing dress up for him in his fantasy gear dominate him or slip him a pill of x in his drink screw him and hell be whooped again
2006-10-27 05:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by streetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something different, go dancing, do what you did when you first met, and the fire was still hot!!!! We all get settled into the mundane.. only You and He can switch it up!!
Good luck.
2006-10-27 05:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Erika M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up provacatively and go out on a fling yourself. You owe it to yourself to enjoy life
2006-10-27 05:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you are still very, very, exciting. Think positive, you are a wonderful woman. Never forget that!!
2006-10-27 05:13:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋