I just get on here and it kind of brings me down. Who loves there husband and marriage?
2006-10-27 04:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by LeeLynn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I pledge to not divorce in spite of my problem (see previous questions - you answered one yourself) which I will work out. My wife (and kids) are my life and I won't let them go.
One thing I do know is that a marriage needs more than love. People can do awful things to people they love if other problems exist. I wish you well - together we can keep the divorce rate down.
2006-10-27 06:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married my high school sweetheart at the age of 21. We had been dating each other for about 5 yrs. when we married. I just knew in my heart he was the one and only. About 1yr into our marriage he got sick and needed a kidney transplant. I stood by him through sickness and in health. Through the years we had 2 kids. About a year after the last child my husband lost it. I don't know if it was all the meds or what. When he threatened to shoot the kids and him self I took the kids and left everything and everyone that i have ever loved. I moved 16hrs away out of fear.
Now I am married and have 4 kids and my husband treats all the kids the same. He even suggested that I stay home with them because he knew they needed me the most. I told him I would but if he ever needed help or we got into a bind with money then I would go back to work. He has always been supportive and I love just being there for my kids. going thru a divorce was hard on everyone expectually my kids. I glad I have a husband who understand that my kids come first and always will. Husband may come and go but your kids will always be there.
2006-10-27 12:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by little momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have made a pledge with my man that when we get married we will never divorce. My divorce last year after 18 years was so heartbreaking for me that I NEVER want to go there again. He has been married three times and divorced three times. He feels the same way. We are living together currently (6 months) and adore each other. We are going to wait for at least a year and then marry. We are both older (41 and 56) and want a forever relationship. I want to marry him because I am so proud of him, adore him and want to share his name and life. I don't feel that I have to marry him to "keep" him. I know he is mine for all time. I think that he feels exactly the same way. I never ever had this before in any other relationship. I always felt worried that breaking up was a possibility.
2006-10-27 12:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I grew up believing that I would never get divorced. In our family that just didn't happen. I married my high school sweetheart at age 19. He joined the marines and had an affair with his best friends wife...who then got pregnant. Yes we divorced. Soon after that I married a man who was just wonderful. Until he started beating me in front of our kids. Yes I got a divorce. They say three times a charm. I married a man who took me and my daughter as a package deal. He loves us both. Yes sometimes people go in looking that marriage is for the long haul. Sorry though somethings happen in marriages that there is no other option but divorce.
2006-10-27 11:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me me me I do! Dont let other people bring you down.Things happen and mean differently to other people that doesnt mean that the same things will happen to your marriage. We all have insecurities and as long as you love your spouse and they love you nothing else matters. Marraige is hard and its too easy to get a divorce so more and more people jump into without having intentions of being together forever and just think well I can always get a divorce, and thats because they jump the gun too quickly. Dont be discouraged thats great and people do stay together but you just have to work at it the two of you. Its hard but it happens. I love my husband and we have overcome some obsticles but it just makes our love grow stronger.
2006-10-27 11:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by hmm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many years ago I pledged that. I did not know at the time my relationship would turn abusive.
I love being married. My marriage was everything to me which is why I stayed as long as I did after it went so wrong.
2006-10-27 14:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most people pledge to never get a divorce right now, but that can change in 5-10 yrs down the road, some people just do not grow together, they grow seperate..
2006-10-27 11:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did pledge never to get divorced... and so did my wife... interesting how a year and a half later she seems to have changed her mind that easily.
Well, I hope never to have to do this again, let's say.
2006-10-27 14:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WILL NEVER GET A DIVORCE!!!! I love my husband more than anything and we have a 2yr old son who is the light of both of our lives. We have been married three and a half years and I will never stop loving him and he will never stop loving me. I thank God everyday for this man and dreams come true.
2006-10-27 12:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by brandiwhine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pledge never to get divorced in your wedding vows. You see how well that works out.
2006-10-27 11:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋