Okay, I have been with my husband for 4 years. I am bi-polar and have always been. I communicate often to him when I am manic or depressed (as much as I can), if there is a change in medicine, etc. I go to therapy regularly to work on my issues as well. The problem is that my husband regularly gets violent, he doesn't hit me, but he destroys our home. He destroys doors, holes in walls, kicks in doors. We just bought this home and he is literally destroying it. My son got so tired of walking on eggshells that he has moved to my parents house and he is 15. I had to call th cops yesterday as his anger once again got out of control and this time he punched glass and his hands are all cut up! I believe we need to separate as does he. Can we work this out? He wants to blame all of his violent behavior on me. He is EXTREMELY ANGRY THAT I CALLED THE POLICE. He says he will never forgive me for calling cops but I didn't know how to get his violence to stop!
2006-10-27
08:37:26
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alysha
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