Hi People
as a young boy, i have some powerful sexual senses that make me Annoyance.
in the Religions i learned that i must wait until the marriage. but i think i cant do it now. so if i make some sexual friendship with a girl , i do a sin or not ?
what can i do ? wait again or free myself from religion ?
2006-10-27 08:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by Person Like you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you know the answer to your question, you can't go against God's word, or what's in your heart. You have to get a grip on your urges and by doing that is to pray. All of us have a sinful nature and that includes lusts of the flesh.
you have to decide what you want more in life, to please yourself or please God. Waiting is hard, but you know what God says about intercourse in the bible, two bodies become one. it is hard to seperate your body and your heart from the act, and in the end it won't be worth it because you may be guilty of going against God's word.
Only you can decide, no one can for you. Pray, and keep praying. God will take care of you. When we make sacrafices we often think that there will be a void or something missing in our lives if we give up something that gives us pleasure... God always replaces that void with something better than you could ever imagine... God will sustain you and change your heart's desire, this doesn't happen over night, it comes with a daily walk, and daily devotion with God.
Ask God to change your heart, ask Him to replace your lustful desire, with a passion and desire for better things. It just takes time friend.
God bless, Shannon
2006-10-27 09:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still sound like the young boy. The way I look at things is basically I beleive in God, but I just live my life day to day and any of my actions I can pray about or learn lessons from but I dont put anything into these rules of religion create your own using basic guidlines, IF you have sex before marriage I think you wont burn in hell but try to be respectful to the person your with or be with someone with the understanding this is sex only Good Luck!
2006-10-27 09:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is a personal choice for everyone. Sex itself is not good or bad, it's a normal part of a healthy adult relationship. Everything else depends on your own moral convictions, which are yours, and yours alone.
In my personal opinion, both obsessions - with having as well as with NOT having sex - are ridiculous; it is much more healthy to embrace your humanity, which sex is a normal and natural part of.
2006-10-27 09:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sexual urges are a part of growing up, this doesn't mean you ought to give in. you're too young for anything anyway. wait, you should, and you and your future wife will be happy you did. :^)
2006-10-27 09:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by mmmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please, ask someone in your country or of your religion, here no one would be able to relate.
2006-10-27 09:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide if sex if worth your religious beliefs
2006-10-27 09:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. and please your self its alot safer..
2006-10-27 09:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋