i had a baby and i gained some weight i go to the gym every day and work out but he still does not seam interested in me any more
2006-10-27 08:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just continue going to the gym and then... try to change your style a little. Have a nice hair style done, put some highlights on your hair, color your nails, buy new wardrobe, put on some sexy perfume,...make a total makeover...you will become a new woman and this excites the men!
2006-10-27 08:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanjean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear sweety,
I am not married but let me ask what attracted your husband to you before you were married? Just my thoughts now but I hope it can help you. Make him his favorite meal and allow him to relax when he gets home from work. Let him sit on the couch and watch his favorite show while you get the last things set for the meal. Then escort him in. You are wearing one of your prettiest dresses and his favorite perfume. Let him sit and just serve him. You might have the lights turned down and some nice music in the background. I recommend that just you and your husband be there together.
I think that after a couple get married that they still go out at least one time a week on an old-fashioned date. Just both of you together to have dinner and a movie or go bowling or whatever.. So that you can talk together and enjoy each other.
2006-10-27 15:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby, takes a lot out of you. &maybe your husband needs a little NUDGE, buy him few Cute Love cards & put under his pillow, or in his lunch box, or on table for him, wear sexy night gowns & have a Candle lit dinner. Babys are 24 hour care & maybe your husband needs just a little nudge. Dont loose to much at once, Your health is more imporent, Take step by Step, ask him Questions to, Say honey I love you, Lets sit down & relaz & watch tv. orr My best bet is buy him cheap friendship love cards & leave on table, First step, Second, Try lighting Candles & have a Baby sitter for ONE night, Maybe you need a Night alone. Also Tell him how Much you love him. Little things means alot, Good luck my dear, Im praying for you, You sound really Sweet. Hugs.
2006-10-27 15:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by ------------------- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make time for just the 2 of you. Get a hotel for the night, hire a sitter and surprise your husband.
Having a baby takes a lot out of you because most of your attention and focus is on the baby. Make him feel like he's 1st on your list again. He might be feeling like you've put him 2nd.
2006-10-27 15:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about becoming the other woman (hint). Role play! Shake somethings up a little. Like: Wear sexy outfits to bed at night and etc. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-27 15:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn into a TV or a computer screen then he might notice you. Or Dress like these little floozies by wearing almost nothing and acting slutty. Men seem to like that.
2006-10-27 15:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone with the baby for an entire day, believe me when you get home he will notice you...............
don't lose the weight for him, do it for you.........I lost alot of weight
for my husband, and now he is insecure and jealous because I look good and he is afraid of losing me to someone else.
2006-10-27 15:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving a little head while he's sitting on the couch, drinking a beer, and watching a game. Priceless.
2006-10-27 15:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking with him. no yelling. or crying..unless you can't help the crying. ask him to be honest with you on why he is being distant. it may be that he is jealous of the close relationship you now have with your new baby. that is common. just let him know that you love him even more now that you both have created a family together.
2006-10-27 15:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to add some kinkyness on your movements when your husbands around like wearing skimpy shorts and bend infront of him while he is watching tv on the couch
2006-10-27 15:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋