at the local adult theater in town.She said it was boring and no fun but my buddie's wife went and told him she went outside with one of the dancers after the show for 30 mins, what should I do. It was a batcherette party. I'm not so sure she didn't really have the time of her life ?
2006-10-27 08:21:42 · 22 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just remember all that you accuse her of now will be held against you later.You gotta remember trust in you wedding vows dude!
2006-10-27 08:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can always tell her what the friend said. But you should beware of what the girl friends say. They aren't trust worthy most times. I mean, why would she be telling you these things if she's her friend? Maybe the friend wants you guys to break up so she can swoop in and take you for herself. She's obviously not a good friend either way around it.
Now, as far as your wife goes, she probably did have an awesome time at the party. She might tell you other wise to spare your feelings of mistrust and low self-esteem. Ask yourself if it was a bachelor party and you and your buddies were at a strip club... what would have happened? Would it have been boring and lame? Doubtful. Ask her to tell you the truth about what happened and let her know that she doesn't have to spare your feelings. If she had fun its okay to tell you. Then read between the lines and find out exactly how much fun she had.
2006-10-27 08:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask any question that you don't want to hear an answer from. Maybe she did run out behind the barn. Just like the lady said - the fire will either destroy you or temper you and make you stronger. It may open up a whole new world for the 2 of you or it may mean the end of the relationship. good luck.
2006-10-27 08:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if they swapped mine for one that wasn't a slob. I love my wife dearly. She really is my soul mate. But if I had one complaint, it is that she's a slob. Normally I'm fine with that. I'm no clean freak either, but every now and then all the crap all over the place just gets to me. So, yeah. It would be interesting to see what life would be like with someone who wasn't a slob for a while. Of course, given the fact that I am a bit of one too, she'd probably rock my world. But isn't that the point? :o)
2016-05-22 01:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either trust your wife or leave her on her own, u know that if any of one is not trusting each other then there is no mean to stay together, so better u ask her weather she really went out with some one or not, and see how she reply, i am sure u have misunderstood, and can be possible to make new and healthy relations, so first learn to understand ur partner then feel what she or he want then try to fulfill her or his requirements
2006-10-27 08:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by ashitnarula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, how about nothing. I mean, why do you care?
Either it was really boring and you're coming off like an insecure little psycho.
Or she ****** him out back for 30 minutes and still came home to you.
Either way she is still your wife and still wants to be with you, so stop acting like a petty loon and let it go.
2006-10-27 09:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she did have the time of her life you should be cool with it. If you trust her then just assume that she had fun with her girls and leave it at that. Details may be more than u want to hear.If trust is an issue with yall then maybe its time to talk about where u are in the marriage.
2006-10-27 08:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by slickgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your buddies wife. Then I would confront your wife about it. Ask her what she did politely, and have her tell the truth. Lying will just make things worse! Let her know that it hurt you. Ask her why she would do such a thing since she is married. You deserve that much to know what your wife did.
2006-10-27 08:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL- that actually happened to me..... I went outside for some fresh air because I was falling asleep in there- it was boring and hot. Well, one of the male strippers came out to smoke so I ended up chatting with him for a while. But everyone inside was freaken out thinking something was going on.
Either ask her or forget about it.
2006-10-27 08:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Offer Her a Lap Dance. Tell Her You will Gaurantee Her The Time Of Her Life. THEN ROCK HER WORLD.
2006-10-27 08:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by bob r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she does not like that sort of thing, maybe you should take her to a strip club and see if she likes that better. My wife would be bored silly at a male stripper party but she goes crazy at the strip club. So take her at her word and offer something else that may excite her.
2006-10-27 08:32:38 · answer #11 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋