I don't know this person but my mate wants me to marry him so he can come to the uk Im meeting him soon and they want me to get married to him
2006-10-27 08:24:53 · 34 answers · asked by liz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 19 years old and my mate is married and it is her other halfs brother. I have known her for ages I trust her
2006-10-27 08:39:53 · update #1
I'm meeting him on Tuesday as well
2006-10-27 08:49:01 · update #2
No it is very wrong and you really don't know what an awful thing you are contemplating. It is an offence as well under the Immigration Act. If I remember rightly you can go to prison for this and your "husband" could be deported.
This "mate" is no friend for asking you to do such a terrible thing and I urge you to have nothing to do with it.
2006-10-27 11:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT HAS TO BE THE MOST STUPEDEST THING I EVER HEARD< NO! you dont marry someone you dont know.Tell Your Mate To get lost. You have got to be out of your mind to marry someone you have never met or know. What kind of acult are you in?, Tell your mate to marry him. Get away from them now.
2006-10-27 08:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it... you don't know him ! You should at least know him
for a year, before you even think about marriage. And that is in
person , not by emails or phone. And only marry for LOVE.
I cant believe your friend ( mate) would want you to do something
like this.
2006-10-27 08:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only is that a crime that you can go to jail for (through INS), but marriage is supposed to mean something. Take it seriously. Let him find another way to become a citizen. Hey, why doesn't he go to Mesxico and cross the border there? We have politicians fighting tooth and nail to grant those illegal aliens citizenship!
2006-10-27 08:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your having us on!!! No its not right to marry someone you don't know I hope you don't bother!! What happens if you meet the one and your married, to someone you don't know, he might not want you!! I'd take ten steps back before you think seriously about this big big decision.
2006-10-27 08:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't marry him, he just wants to be able to come to your country, then what? You don't know this person, why do you have to marry him? Get to know this person if you want, then if you love him, then you can marry him!
2006-10-27 08:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One big question comes to mind: What's in it for you? If you're going to offer years of your life to someone, so that they can have a country, what will they give you in return? Personally, I'd rather sell my body over and over then sell my future to someone. So, is it worth it to you to give him years of your life so he can have a country? Or is there something you want out of it too? What's important for you to have in a marriage?
2006-10-27 08:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really just do what you think is right it sounds like you want to know him better befor u marry so i think you'd better do that .i mean what if he is creazy
or gey
or samething else .a friend of my friend was about to marry a man she didnt know becos she was sceard noone else would ask her
good thing she canceled the weding 3 days before it was meant to be
the man was insane
2006-10-27 08:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by ala t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a special relationship, its not doing a favour to anyone or being paid to do it. it's something much more than saying I do! do you really to be with someone that you don't know! not just that also he is marrying you only so he gets in here! how bad is that???! he is using you! and you certainly shouldn't allow that!
2006-10-27 09:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by sweetdays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A recipe for disaster....you cannot use marriage in this way. It sould always be given the thought and respect it deserves between two people commited to one another.
2006-10-27 08:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋