if you have a lot at stake you should. it looks better to the courts. but most people don't wait at all.
2006-10-27 08:39:38
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answered by beckdawgydawg 4
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Weather you've had a good relationship or a bad one there is going to be a period of time that you'll need to get over your spouse. Jumping into or seeking another relationship just won't work. Divorce doesn't end after judgment in court, once your divorced your divorced forever, regardless if you remarry or not. You become marked, once someone you may be interested finds out that your divorced then a series of Q&A begins. If the person has any wits about him he'll understand that there is 2 sides to every story and how much of the story is truth. All women play the victim in a divorce, it's always the guys fault. Whats going to happen to you is your going to start partying, and become a slam queen and by the time your 40 you'll be considered the old town pump.
2006-10-27 09:13:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Personally, I'd wait till I totally resolve my divorce issues. You don't want to be dating with all the pressure on your head besides, it is too soon to be involved in another decision so you may be quite vulnerable at this time even though you may not realize it. This might result in you making wrong relationship decisions. So finish your battle with your ex, take a break and tend to yourself a little and don't look hard for a date. You will know when the right time is when you feel completely hal. You will know you are healed when you stop comparing other men to your ex. All the best
2016-05-22 01:21:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Ethically: I think its fine to date after you are seperated for good, its like being permanantly broken up. The divorce being final is only a legality that has nothing to do with the actualy relationship.
Legally: I wouldn't let your ex know you are looking around for someone new, it could complicate the already complicated situation. You can go out and do so, but it might be a good idea to keep your distance until everything is said and done.
2006-10-27 08:41:48
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answered by Fran Y 3
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I dont see a problem with it im still waiting on my divorce to be done. But my ex left me and she lives in anoter state. I found another girl, but unfortunatly i wasnt ready for another relationship. having to much fun being single again. Just when ever you think your comfortable gettin back out there and havein fun or getin into another relationship.
I do have to agree it could become a headache in the courts. If it is brought up.
2006-10-27 09:33:40
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answered by striderknight2000 3
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Well if you dont than you are committing adultery. I think it is important that you take some time by yourself. It is important that you be happy with who you are before you pursue another relationship. It is not a good idea to enter a relationship with baggage from the previous one. Give it a little time, what is the rush?
2006-10-27 08:40:24
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answered by Anonymous
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When my marriage ended it was because my husband wanted it do. i am dating and my marriage will be not final till april.
2006-10-27 08:44:18
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answered by slickgirl 2
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no ......what for.......you know the end is coming already
2006-10-27 08:45:03
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answered by non-curious 2
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hell no, go live your life.
2006-10-27 08:52:44
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answered by burnttoast97 4
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