The older I get, the more I wish I was not married and able to play the field. There are so many "hot" women out there to get to know better. What's wrong with "window shopping"?
2006-10-27 05:13:02 · 16 answers · asked by SeanB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My personal belief is that there is nothing wrong with window shoping. And there is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with other women. My reason for this is, simply put, you only live once, you have desires, nature built it in, and I do not believe that anyone should be a slave to another. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be free. I know the feeling. However, this does not mean that there are not conciquences. You made a choice at one point in your life to be committed to another. You also must have known that this has legal and emotional binds. The thing to do now is make a decision which path you want to follow. Then be honest with yourself and those whom you will effect. The fact is, it is your life, and I believe each individual has the right and (should have) the freedom to do with it as they choose. Even if it's wrong. But the key point is, don't be wishy washy and try and ride the fence, make a decision.
2006-10-27 05:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by James M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have done all of your shopping before you entered the institution of marriage. Once married - your statement was that you have found the best package and you are finished shopping. I know men out there whom have decided that there was something more out there and have became BOMBS with no life!!! Yes, they enjoyed the single life and had fun and are still having fun but have not grown at all!!! It is your life and your decision. However, your wife's life is in your hand so you need to make your decision so that she could continue on with her life and find someone that wants to be with her. Grow up!!!
2006-10-27 12:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, if you want your marriage to be over. Maybe you should confess this to her, and then both of you decide if you wish to continue your marriage. Mine windowshopped, found something he like, and our marriage became crowded. I left...like pronto.... and I was the best thing that ever happened to the guy. Too late, he destroyed The Respect, Admiration and Passion I have for him, because he breached the Trust...... And when the Trust goes, it all goes. Decide what you want...... If your marriage needs some spice, read "For you Both" by Lonnie Barbach, THE sex therapist in the country today, cheap in paperback, can be yours by Saturday from Amazon.com. All sorts of ways to make your wife again your lover, as well as your best friend.. We all need things to make marriages last...... in previous generations, no one got to be married for 20 or 30 years -- one or the other just died.....
2006-10-27 13:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. flirting especially when combined with wishing you were single is not a good sign and usually the first step to cheating. If you have any love for your spouse at all, divorce her and give her the chance to find someone who really does love her.
2006-10-27 12:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r kidding yourself! If you want to play the field get divorced, how would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot?
2006-10-27 12:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not have gotten married if you still want to flirt. It is okay to look but if a look involves your imagination wondering you have crossed the line. There is a such thing as mental cheating.
"They girl may be fine, but she aint mine"
2006-10-27 12:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with window shopping...but in this case, if you try something on you may be stuck with it. Good luck
2006-10-27 15:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear of the seven year itch? Sounds like that's what you have. No matter what, make sure you are ready to live with the consequences of your actions.
2006-10-27 12:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why get married and settled down if u just want to play around and flirst with other women???
2006-10-27 12:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by kenshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your wife that question. Maybe she feels the same way.
2006-10-27 12:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋