My husband always tries to give me speeches about everything, I mean it gets on my nerves. Like I ask him his opinion and he starts well look let me tell you a lot of times or people. I am like ok, it is a yes or no answer.
2006-10-27 06:00:48 · 17 answers · asked by maria l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't ask if you don't want to listen to the answer.
My question is why do women never listen?
2006-10-27 06:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answer questions the same way. I have one girlfriend that this drives her mental She says she wants a yes or no answers. For me I use life experiences and my past as a guide when I give advice. I can't come out and tell someone else what they should do or not do.
I also discovered when I answer like " A lot of people feel..." or " a lot of times..." I do this because it's in a small way guarding my feelings and thoughts. If I use others as examples then I don't give too much of what I am really thinking away.
2006-10-27 13:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Maria,
I am am a Man,all I can tell you,if you meet a Man that's mature and intelligent will tell you that he don't know every thing,every Day is a learning Experience,I grew up with 4 Lady's,I had no Dad,but I did learn how to look at a point the same as a Woman,and without there love we would not be here,the are not in this world anymore,but I think about them every Day,tell your Husband to grow up and be happy to have you,Karl
2006-10-27 20:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your own question. It will give you your answer. Your thought process is disjointed. You can't even put together a proper sentance in writing.
He questions your judgement and intelligence. He thinks he has to educate you on every issue because you do not evidence a rational thought process. You ask his opinion, then can't stand to get the answer.
It's not a question of why he thinks he knows it all. It's a question of why you do.
2006-10-27 13:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a time piece like they do in chess, you can only talk when it is your turn for set time. Like pass the mic every 60 secs.
Or talk with him in letter form or IM something where he has to listen. Make your questions to the point and he proceeds to go on and on.
Also you married him like that, you knew he was like that from the begining.
Rember this Men marry women expecting them not to change but Women marry men expecting them to change.
2006-10-27 13:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women are like that.
Not only men.
The thing is nobody knows many things.
Some are always try to show off.
Some are really knowledgeable.
Whoever lack common sense, does so.
Men and women differs in their nature and thinking very much.
Either take him or leave him. That is all.
2006-10-27 13:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It drives me crazy when people do that!! Just yes or no please!!Now let me tell you what......do you know a lot of people think or a lot of people do .....LOL!! Sorry ...yes very irritating I don't know why men think they know it all ..I geuss there is your next question , ask the men why they think they know it all.
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2006-10-28 23:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you're always "asking" about one thing or another. Stop asking and start answering your own thoughts and ideas. It's called critical thinking.
2006-10-27 13:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the root of the problem is not the question-answer aspect, it is related to how you feel about him deep inside!!! do you really love him?
2006-10-27 13:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Swan Male 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already know that he'll drone on and on, then stop asking for his opinion. I learned that one a few years ago.
2006-10-27 13:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋