Been with boyfriend 10 years, for past 3 years there was flirting and but has evolved into something so much more. boyfriend knows flirting takes place, found emails back and forth stating my feelings about him and his feelings toward me. not sure what to do?
2006-10-27 09:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bigger better deal, lol,
I am surprised it has not come to blows,
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2006-10-27 09:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, you are cheating. Are you sure it has "evolved into something so much more" or is your relationship with the the other guy exciting because you're being sneaky? Has your 10 yr gotten boring for you? Do you love him? Do you want to make it work? No matter what you need to make a choice.
2006-10-27 09:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do, but own up to it. If feelings for this other guy have been going on for 3 years then you have obviously been losing feelings for your boyfriend for that long. since you have already disrespected your boyfriend you should let him go as gently as possible with what is left of his dignity. I hope you think twice before doing this in the future.
2006-10-27 09:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by rufi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish one thing before you start another. If you don't want to be with your boyfriend, break up. Just think how you would feel if he was the one flirting and sending emails.
2006-10-27 09:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tough one there. Just break your boyfriends heart and go with the other guy, but be sure to flirt with other boys when you are with him so that you keep up your reputation as a ho
2006-10-27 09:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'd say you want to locate some thanks to enable go of your cutting-edge boyfriend to flow on to what's waiting for you. i'd also imagine that the longer you wait the more severe it is going to be such as your cutting-edge boyfriend. i can't imagine that you all will be able to be acquaintances. I say placed your self in his shoes till now you do it, so that you're able to have a more effective perfect feeling of how he is going to experience. this difficulty sounds like a chilly one. i can't even imagine the way you may want to be with someone for thus long and then do them so incorrect for the ultimate 2 years. i'm absolutely not judging you nor do i comprehend any of your situations, yet i can't imagine that that is been undemanding on you & it is going to tear him aside. seem at it like this he has been trusting you 2 maximum of all & you 2 are about to modify his existence & emotions continuously. Gurl i'd hate to be in both of your shoes. I absolutely desire you good luck such as your destiny endevers, yet get it going you're in basic terms inflicting more effective damage the longer you wait. i'm hoping you'll stumble on a thanks to get into action with this and end what's clearly over & commence what you've been waiting for. good luck to all in contact.
2016-12-05 07:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get your question so much but to me,you're cheating.Anyway,the more you wait to tell your boyfriend up front the more complicated it gets and the more lieing you have to do to get yourself out of trouble.You should've taken action the minute you found out you liked this man over your boyfriend and you should've confessed to your boyfriend.Waiting more just made it harder and harder so my advice,just tell your boyfriend right away.This will be easy for the both of you to get over but hard to end the relationship
2006-10-27 09:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by peacejump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this with the friend of the boyfriend?If so your cheating on him.You need to make up your mind who's it going to be,then do it.
2006-10-27 09:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married So follow your heart..
2006-10-27 09:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋