As your once studly husband ages and his body gets a little hairier and his gut becomes a pony keg and his pecs become more moob (man boob) than pec, and his head hair starts disappearing, have you told your man that you see all these things and you still love him and want him? If you haven't, why not?
2006-10-27 09:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by OU812 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We started dating in 1979...27 years ago, and that man still makes me tingle. So, yes definietly I tell him I love him. He's my air that I breath. He's not hairy, he's has a little less hair, he's skinny as rail because of his health problems, but all I see when I see him is my heart. He's still got it!
Happy to have each day with him, and to see that sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me and my wrinkles, sagging breasts, and an baby belly that hadn't had a baby in it in 17 years.
Rose color glasses--no--true love!
lovely question! thank you for reminding people to tell their spouses those 3 little words that are so important...
2006-10-27 14:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you were only 15 when you got together and miss that guy that wasn't serious about anything, would treat life like one long joke, and such? And there's nothing wrong with reminding him - gently - of the fun times you miss, but to tell him you don't love him? BIG MISTAKE! What has changed? Maybe he's grown up while you weren't looking, and is now waiting on you to meet him there. After all you tell him you don't love him anymore, that he's not the person you fell in love with, and then go on to declare here moments later that you do love him. Maybe its because of that flip flopping that he's not sure you're serious? Perhaps he's realised that life isn't always fun, and to make it through, and to make a better life for the two of you AND any kids that you might have, he has had to "settle down", and become a mature man instead of a boy? To think about things like money and debts, job security, and where he wants to be in 5, 10 or 20 years time. Maybe thinking of kids is something he treats as serious? You can either CHOOSE to mourn the lost of the "fun" boy or grow in love with the man he has become. And there's nothing wrong with reminding him - gently - of the fun times you miss.
2016-03-19 00:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what he looks like....of course I'd tell him I love him.
When you marry it isnt for looks it is much more than that.
People age and change ...most of the time you age and change together.
As long as you can communicate, have compassion for one another and are able to share then you have it all!
2006-10-27 09:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , i have always told him that i love him and he also tells me that he loves me, even though we are a lot older our love is just as strong as ever.
2006-10-27 09:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by zzum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't age well either....so compare saggy parts and have a giggle.
2006-10-27 10:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god he is younger than me. but i could never think bad of him if he did change w / age. i love him for who he is an what he is inside. not because i look good standing beside him.
2006-10-27 09:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only every day...I vowed for better or worse, for richer or poorer, and in sickness and in health, till death do us part.....
celebrated 17 yrs in june, and I love him more and more as the years go by.
2006-10-27 09:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by patty m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if he says the same thing, as I too get a little hairier, and my parts start to jiggle and dimple and my breast become lap bags.
2006-10-27 09:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes he has man boobys and i like them of course hes built so its hot and he has grey hair and yes i still find him sexy when i first met him he looked like a greek god he just looks older but i tell him he is still sexy
2006-10-27 09:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by kayme42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
several times every day and before we go to sleep at night too.It is called _STILL BEING IN LOVE
2006-10-27 09:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by lcj43938 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋