My wife has started opening up about her sexual fantasies during sex. but i think she still feels a little guilty. could any other married women give us some ideas of there fantasies so she knows its normal to have them. you can email us also if you would rather. needingitnow342000@yahoo.com
thanks
2006-10-27 09:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It maybe taz but she has never heard any from her friends so im not sure.. anything would help.
thanks
2006-10-27 09:18:50 · update #1
She is probably embarrassed and worried that you will think she is nasty or something.....
The first time I told my husband I wanted to try anal......I thought he was going to pass out! And he would not do it.....Anyway I felt terrible for a while wondering what he must be thinking about me!
When I asked him he if he thought I was nasty he said no and we have since been playing with the idea.......If you know what I mean!
Just make sure she knows you appreciate her honesty and openness and don't think she is nasty!
2006-10-27 09:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
During sex is the best time to let all of your inhibitions out. It is very natural to have fantasies and whatever it is about is up to you!! The sky is the limit...think of all the places you can be with your husband...even if you fantasize about another girl it is ok...you don't have to act on it just let the image get into your husbands head of you with another female & I guarantee you the sparks will fly.
If you are in a commited loving relationship this is a very healthy thing to do. The both of you should open up about your fantasies and see what common ground you may have...could lead to another level in your relationship.
Good luck to you both & happy dreaming!!!
2006-10-27 09:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be feeling guilty, maybe she just feels shy or embarassed. Most sexually active women married or not have fantasies. Its fun to day dream. Maybe share some of yours or make some of hers come true. I have lots of them and my guy loves it.
2006-10-27 09:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't worry some of us girls/women have CRAZY fantasis but it takes a woman to admit it!
your should ease her guilt not us!
2006-10-27 09:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are not "truely' hurting anyone or causing health problems...than what is so wrong about it.
Its exactly that...fantasy
2006-10-27 09:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her time
2006-10-27 09:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, good luck with that. lol
2006-10-27 09:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by nickkap1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋