He is cheating, with another guy!
2006-10-27 23:48:32
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answer #1
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answered by Anarchy99 7
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In any relationship one of the most important rules has to be trust. If your boyfriend has never cheated on a previous girlfriend and you have never found proof of his cheating on you, I would say don't worry.
BUT!!! If you want a stable trusting relationship with ANYONE you must stop accusing him without a sound reason. Jealousy is an annoying, hurtful and in the end a destroying emotion. No one wants to be in a smothering relationship.
About whether or not he is cheating on you I can't tell you..I don't know the two of you so anything I said might do more harm than good. Only you know anything about your situation. I will say this. If you continue to accuse him of cheating and cannot control your jealousy then he may very well find a new girlfriend.
I certainly do not wish for that to happen. I am not trying to bring you down, but this is a lesson most of us have to learn. I wish you many blessings and I do hope the two of you can work this out. I'll say a prayer for you. That is the one thing I can do.
God bless.
2006-10-28 00:05:18
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answered by fishergirl 3
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my best thing to tell you is to go with your instincts, intuition and guts! they never lie or disappoint you! just because youbf did not cheat on the previous gf's does not mean that he picked up a couple of bad habits such as infidelity! if you feel that he is cheating on you which i also think he is doing then confront him and most likely he would get defensive and ask you if you are cheating on him-if a person blames the other person that is how they show that they are guilty or that they are doing that action that they are accussed of! also, if he starts treating you really nice out of nowhere that is another sign! even so i would say that he is playing you big times so you need to dump him and forget about him and move on!once a cheater always a cheater and once a liar always a liar! i hope that helped!
2006-10-27 23:49:25
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answered by icycrissy27blue 5
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no! you need more proof first. You didn't say anything about how you think he was telling you lies and he had a reputation for lying to you and cheating so just go with the flow right now and wait for some harder evidence, if you keep prematurely accusing him of little things he might leave you.
2006-10-27 23:59:33
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answered by mnm4213 2
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whilst he without warning has issues to try this he not at all had to do previously...whilst he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude in the direction of you is changing, if he tells you he "merely desires some ME time" in case you reside mutually a number of those are indications too... one million. decrease desire to be with you sexually. 2. without warning tries new sexual positions. 3. working previous due greater usually. 4. Mysterious telephone calls. 5. gets offended once you seem on the cellular telephone, pager, or pc. Is secretive of such. 6. scent of physique spray on their outfits. 7. Takes a tub as quickly as he comes homestead. 8. you come across hairs or different products on his physique or in his possessions. 9. starts off taking greater care together with his visual attraction. 10. Accuses you of cheating. eleven. he adjustments his typical recurring without reason or reason.
2016-11-26 00:32:54
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answered by guiteres 4
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Time for a heart to heart talk. Accusations will not help. If he wants to play the field let him know you aren't prepared to accept that, If your relationship is important you've got to show some trust, but it is important to talk about any doubts you or he may have.
2006-10-27 23:44:46
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answered by doktordbel 5
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WELL YOU TWO WILL NOT WORK OUT AND IF YOU TWO STAY TOGETHER YOU both WILL HAVE AN UNHAPPY TIME OF IT. You need to be alone and go to therapy and learn why you don't love yourself. IF you did you would NOT be jealous......you also are pushing him away and giving permission TO cheat...he thinks he might as well if you say he is and are fighting with him....DON'T assume anything.EVER!
2006-10-27 23:43:48
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answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4
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Jealousy is caused by lack of self esteem. You need to stop accusing him without proof or you are going to lose him. It isnt right to play head games with people.
Never assume anything. Get proof.
2006-10-27 23:43:26
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answered by Mary N 3
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Give him a break. Just let him explain and take it from there but don't get overboard and carried away with wanting reasons. He is probably true to you and you must just except that. Not all men are bad, just most of them.
2006-10-27 23:44:54
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answered by Maggie 5
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The more you accuse him the more he's going to cheat on you because he figers he getting blamed for nothing so why not get blamed for something.
2006-10-27 23:47:18
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answered by mark r 2
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You are crazy! Your boy friend is butterfly, he wants to suck the dew and flyoff! Take care, it is your world and your life! If you are crazy like this you will end up in a deep trouble!
2006-10-27 23:44:08
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answered by SESHADRI K 6
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