1. Sex: whenever he feels like it has to be no matter what. if i suspect something then i say lets do it he will say wrong timing.
2.Family: We are married and he does not want to balance the two families he is still so much on his side and when i talk about he will be like marrying u does not mean that i should stop supporting my family!
3. House: He controls everything my clothes, buying furniture for the house, beddings, kitchen every thing u can think of color of the curtains and this makes me to feels that he take me like i dont think.
Respect: He does not respect me at all he says iam dull,helpless and lazy but i really work for this man in the bedroom i finish my energy, kitchen i cook ideas i bring them up and he has never agreed to any idea i bring and this demoralizes me badly.
I will be telling a story he will just say u know u iritate me how can i be irritating to my Husband?
I have got a lot i can say about this man i just do not know what conclusion can be made.Help
2006-10-27 23:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Poki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so wat help u need, u think u can change such MCPs , well i dont think so, i know this is disgusting, but u think u have guts to come out of marriage, well i dont think so, then wat option is left, i suggest u that u have a life of ur own, have ur own friends , ur won career, and dont turn to him, dont expect from him, make ur own world, u can b happy without a man, its not neccessary that u can b happy only if ur hubby cares, to hell with such men, i m not asking u to cheat him, i m asking u to b happy without him, i know its difficult living under the same floor, but u wont lode anything if u try, try giving ur hobbies a full room, do wat u likem, but most imp is u b financial indepnednt, then only u can spend on urself, have good rapport with ur kids if u ahve kids,
2006-10-28 00:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, the man you married has no respect for you, your ideas, opinions, thoughts or dreams. If he does not get help, you will continue to be demoralized, belittled and disrespected. You are his little puppet and he controls you because you allow it. Grow a backbone and give this guy an ultimatum - either he or you both get marital counseling or you're outta there. If he refuses, he is probably afraid to hear the truth from a 3rd party; and I would seriously consider leaving this man. You deserve happiness, and life is too short to not be happy and do what you enjoy doing - whether it's cooking, shopping or whatever. Your spouse should encourage you and support you, not knock you down. What a coward this man is. Tell him to pick on someone his own size.
2006-10-28 00:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by festivus64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a controlling man. They control everything and everyone around them because of their low self esteem. Staying in a relationship like this is unhealthy. Most controlling men pick women with low self esteem so they can be in control. What are you in this relationship for? You can be better being by yourself than being with a man who does not respect himself. You have options. Good Luck!
2006-10-28 02:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Familiar too me!! It will only get worse, It makes them fell like more of a man when they are in control. Get out now while you still can, don't waste 15 years like I did. There are good men out there find one while your still young. I did and I am the happiest I have ever been, Now that you have something to compare other men to, you will be much more selective.
2006-10-28 05:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by mysticmoons2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like you have a husband what you have is a controller. You should have never let it go this far. Marriage is about partner ship not slavery. You know if it is really this bad he will not make any changes or sacrifices.
So it is up to you to make your own and be happy ever after.
2006-10-28 00:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 07:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by louder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too good for this man go find someone who loves you for you and respects you .... you only have one life do you really want it to be like this... You deserve much much much better!!
2006-10-28 00:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by vdub_bug_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the He!! are you doing there?
You need to read your own statements and pretend like someone else wrote them and then ask yourself what you would tell them.
2006-10-28 00:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're better off without him. Really you are.
2006-10-28 00:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋