my husband i just worked things out instead of a divorce i had filed on him and i had promised him i would never get with another loser but while he was at the carnival theses same people made him think i had done something and never did- that is what i dont understand and he said i could blame the co- worker for us splitting up this time,i dont think its fair for me take the punishment when i am not quilty of doing wrong- is he not the one to be guilty of his actions believing i was with someone and was not he then turn and went to another the same co- workers daughter that they both started this break up??Knowing we had just gotten back together with one another and was trying to save our marriage?
2006-10-27 21:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by kdkc06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He made his choice- sorry - choose better - and be better - carny is no way to live or have a healthy marriage- D
2006-10-27 21:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gettiing involved with another loser while looking for furntiture if you had been walking around at the carnival would be one thing, but looking at the same thing in a different way and seeing the other side could be a second.
I would say do the second thing first and then try to understand the thing you never did, while punishment I would think would be yet the third thing, but undeserved.
2006-10-28 04:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad for you that you were able to get back together.
I don't know how good the carnival is going to be for your relationship. maybe if your both serious you can work it out, like both traveling with the carnival or him finding a job near you.
He sure took a long time to "get his head straightened out" and should have kept in better contact with you.
To put it mildly...His "friends at the carnival don't sound like "good" friends. Your right don't take too much punishment because his stuff isn't the sweetest.
2006-10-28 04:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get your question...sorry
2006-10-28 04:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by kachengz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I don't get your question either.....
2006-10-28 05:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋