Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2006

Ive been thinking about getting back with my ex weve been separated for six months because he got addicted to pain killers ( he was prescibed them for a back injury he got on his job) we were together fo about 4 years married for 2. I just dont know if i can trust him. Im 25 so its not like Ima kid and we do not have any kids together. I moved 500 miles away because i couldnt make iton my own nd now i live witha relative. I miss my ex for the most part he was a good guy but I dont know what to do. If you were me what would you do?

2006-10-31 11:30:36 · 19 answers · asked by Catie 5

2006-10-31 11:30:31 · 6 answers · asked by Lucky Rastus 1

I am so down.... because of this guy. he does not care for me... so this makes me feel a little low.... any ideas on how to get over this person and move on and enjopy life and laugh again?? no.. I don't drink or smoke ANYTHING.... HEHEHEH

2006-10-31 11:26:18 · 5 answers · asked by :) BE HAPPY 1

What would hurt you or drive you to murder if your husband or boyfriend slept with another woman or he said that he was in love with another woman.

2006-10-31 11:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by D. A. 1

he seems to have everything already.

2006-10-31 11:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Jazz DNA 3

My ex and I were together for 14 yrs. Broke up twice (question of marriage not pushed by either), once because she cheated. Fast forward to February 2006. We have a son, 2 1/2 yrs. She cheated on me. Breaks up with me in the thrill of someone new. That doesn't work for her. She desparatly wants me back. Now she realizes what she has done to her family (she is no longer with the guy). I feel I cannot forgive her for her trespasses. I don't feel I can trust her to be faithful. I have custody of our son. She feels she is missing out. I want her to be more in our sons life. What should I do? I really do not want to return to this relationship.

2006-10-31 11:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by yp_john_greendale_73 1

2006-10-31 11:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by hatenhouston 1

it would hopefully get government out of the marriage control issue, it would hopefully entice more people to marry that are in love regardless of religeous difference, It would hopefully cut down on divorce rates, ( maybe not )...I just think that that the old time worn " We are gathered here in the presence of God" line is antiquated and should be replaced by a more practical approach, i.e. a civil pact entered into by two consenting adults,,,I'm not gay by the way, but I have no problem with two adult consenting people of the same sex falling in love and getting married.. like i said, please don't bash me too hard for this question...

2006-10-31 11:10:28 · 11 answers · asked by Marvin C 4

othe than that he,s a good husband, but he will not empty and take the trash out. what shalli do?

2006-10-31 11:06:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant be the only person to never make it to a year even though it wasnt me that walked away from the marraige

2006-10-31 11:05:02 · 32 answers · asked by smiff78 3

2006-10-31 10:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by ?Quesion&AnswerMan! 1

I am twenty years old. And when I am married I will be 21 but I been with fiance for 5 years and I love him is this too young? our parents dont think so because they support us in this decision and believes we are soulmates, they are right because I can see no one else for me and we both have full time jobs, we pay rent. I know I am ready.

2006-10-31 10:51:34 · 25 answers · asked by Newlywed 4

I know who the person is but she is not and never was a friend fortunately l choose my friends more carefully. The scrag used to work with my partner many years ago and she got in touch with a mutual friend of theirs. We were having a few problems at the time and so when she handed out her phone number and asked for it to be handed on knowing full well that my partner and l were married it just opened up an opportunity for him.He now knows he certainly did the wrong thing and wants nothing more to do with her. Unfortunately the damage has been done though.We are working hard on undoing the scrags damage and he constantly tells me he loves only me and she meant nothing to him and if you saw her you could certainly believe that.I know l love him dearly and he is certainly worthy of my love, but l just don't want her to totally get away with it scott free. I need some advice as to what l can do to her LEGALLY ofcourse. Just for my own peace of mind.She is scum. Please help.

2006-10-31 10:50:50 · 6 answers · asked by kazzadanni 4

I called my x of a year now to ask him how he just fell out of love with me. He said he never did, but he didn't want to become a father and he wanted me to have the family life that I deserved.
Then he tells me that his girlfriend is just like me....What is up with that?

2006-10-31 10:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Dori 2

Is love something that is learned? Do some people just "know" and some people learn to love? If you've been together for 6 months and you don't know, is that bad? What about a couple of years and still not knowing? Does that mean you should probably break up?

2006-10-31 10:37:58 · 7 answers · asked by ftz 6

Been married near 8yrs. Was a quick wedding at young ages - both trying to escape reality of our lives at that time. Been diificult time all the way along, but love each other. Husband spent many years (but not anymore) into porn which hurt real bad. We did the separate bedroom thing and separate holidays and councelling. Passionwise its lacking, but I get alot of nuturing and security from him and intellectually good. But he`s stubborn and a bit arrogant. I can see what he offers me in the relationship, but I dont know what I give him - and when I ask he dosent have an answer. But He says he believes we`ll be together till were real old. Weve worked through so much already, but sometimes I wonder if we should just go our separate ways. We have a kid together and I want a larger family (i`m not in my 20`s anymore!) I dont take separation lightly. To add to all this we dont have a strong support network, neither of us are close to family or have many friends that we see much of or share

2006-10-31 10:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a relationship for two years, and we're not married yet. would it be appropriate to buy a "Happy Anniversary" card for example.

2006-10-31 10:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by Dave 1

she had another kid from him years later,my boy is 19yrs now we both had great jobs before my boy was born theres no reason for her tobe on welfare all those years and why should get the whole bill ,i lost everything because but stil getting billed wages garnished she was the one on welfare not me ,she could of worked,i dont mind paying but she left me and the home we planned to raise our boy and now 19 years later my wage garnishment is at its highest ever ,and if this continous ill be homeless please help me

2006-10-31 10:09:33 · 14 answers · asked by dano l 1

2006-10-31 10:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my husband has been having net sex with a girl he slept with 3 years before. Does this mean he is cheating on me?

2006-10-31 09:56:19 · 33 answers · asked by teresapowers 1

I get home from work a hour ago and my husband is already celebrating halloween and is drunk. So while Im getting the kids dressed up he is at the door handing out candy. I am thinking this is going to keep him out of trouble,right! WRONG. He ends up puking all over the little kids who are at our door trick or treating. He's passed out in the front yard at the moment and I am beside myself on what to do at this moment! HELP!

2006-10-31 09:49:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been togther for a year. It dosen't happen every time but it dose happen alot. I've talked to him about it, he said that when he gose off thats it, you know how it feels, you just want to stop. My suggestion was to grab a toy & help me out. He wont even do that! He says he loves me, & I beleve him, but how can you truely love some if you don't want to make love with them?

2006-10-31 09:38:45 · 37 answers · asked by ? 1

she calls him all the time, he says that it is important that they co parent for the sake of their son, she has some heart condition and everything is life and death with her, every time their son does any thing wrong no matter how little she is on the phone with him, I have been putting up with this, but he feels so guilty because he lives away from them , he wants to give his son everything, and when he doesnt the son cry's and so he feels guilty that he disappointed him, the ex yells at him for disappointing their son yet again, she has 3 other kids by 3 other men, and their son is particulary close to the youngest (4yo) so every other weekend their son cry's to bring the little girl with him, well I guess my question is , is am I selfish for thinking that it is not our job to raise her other kids, he says he feels like I don't love him and his son if I can't do one thing every other weekend to make his son happy, am I wrong?

2006-10-31 09:38:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife an i have now been separated for two months. I got frustrated with my step daughter and vented by yelling and using foul language to vent. I did not do this in front of my step daughter. We have mutal friends, thats how we met. We discussed this with them in great detail. Well after a couple of days after that sit down my wife and step daughter left. She has not talked to our mutal friend who was her best friend. Our friends an I still talk an hang out, but she has not said a word to them. I have told our friends many times it's my fault, but they say it's not that she did me wrong. I love them and would love to have them back. Can i get my family back and why does she avoid our friends?

2006-10-31 09:34:55 · 9 answers · asked by john d 1

i been though 10 years with one men 2 kids and 10years with other man and 1 child and married but seprated. i meet someone a month ago and i feel over heals with this man. i feel in my heart i love him and i want to be with him i want to divorce my husbend for this man. my children has meet him already. were talking about moving in with one other. i just love him i know i do. but the person i'm or use to be something says it might be to fast. what do u think.

2006-10-31 09:32:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it fair to a have a best friend of the oppiset sex even if that friend came before your husband or wife?? #2 how far will you allow it meaning what will be the limits of what you are allowed to do with this (best) friend?#3 do you talk to this friend on a day to day basis?? and would it be about your marriage problems and other problems concerning your relationship with this person whom you are dating when does the boundrys come in place,where there needs to have respect for your husband or your wife . does it get to the point of you thinking that husband or wife is cheating on you with this (best) friend? when is it time to draw the line?? i need help before i get to that non trusting stage in my marriage. i dont think i need to snoop and check his belongings i mean im a cop and i can do what i need to, to get answers .

2006-10-31 09:31:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married 4months. my husband isnt as romantically interested in me as i would like or even as "normal" guys should be. We discussed this issue and it seems that his "romantic" interest in me is sporadic. this has crushed me and my self esteem. he doesnt flirt with me, look at me the way a husband should look at this wife, or really act all that interested except once in a while. an affair has been 100% ruled out and theres no type of dysfunction. he wants "us" to work, and says he can be the way i want. i disagree. i feel like this isnt an issue to work out. its either there or its not. i dont want my husband to have to try to become more romantically attracted to me nor do i want him to "get help" for it. when your in love and really attracted to someone the romance should come natural especially for a young healthy guy. he says he doesnt know why the attraction lacks but i think it has to do with me physically but he doesnt want to hurt me. I need help!!!

2006-10-31 09:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by sunflower 1

My husband and I have hit the "Dry Spell" lived together for 7 years and been married 2. Love making is not at the top of his agenda - how do i let him know it is on mine?

2006-10-31 09:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by cloe 1

My husband of two years and myself moved into a new apartment today for the first time living together without roomates.
I came home from buying some things and sat down to watch t.v, he came in and turned it off, i couldnt believe it and turned it back on, he threathened to throw it out if i watched it during the day!!
We got into a big fight after i told him he cant control me. Now he says the T.V is going! Unfortunately im depended on him right now as i havent yet recieved my working status, and cant work. If i divorce him i will be cutting my nose off despite my face as the say as i wont get my greencard. But i can not and wont tolerate being controlled. Wat should i do? I love him very much but i need to be independent, he needs to know i can walk out if i like.. but how can i ?

2006-10-31 09:20:36 · 22 answers · asked by Lady 2

why are you with that person still??

2006-10-31 09:19:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous