Does Net Sex constitute cheating?

Question

I found out that my husband has been having net sex with a girl he slept with 3 years before. Does this mean he is cheating on me?

yes - some of you are right - he told her he could still taste HER!!!! Smell her, remember what her tight little p***y felt like. He actually said "I want to "MAKE LOVE" to you for hours."

Answer 1

..............I hate to rat on the dude....with the guy code and all, but yeah he is.

Especially if its taking away from you two.

He's not suppose to be friends w/ ex's anyway is he? Especially if he's doing this right now. Whats gonna happen within 6 months: THE REAL THING.

Nip it in the bud.

Answer 2

first of all if he feels the need to hide something from you... it's wrong... that means he's either ashamed in some way or he knows what he's doing is wrong.... secondly there is more than one type of cheating... most people think of physical cheating (having sex, kissing, etc) but there is also emotional cheating. This can be anything from a date or secret etc. Anytime a spouse shares some sort of intimacy with another person and he/she won't share it with you, there's a problem. However, in the end it is all about the individual couple. Do you feel uncomfortable with it? If you tell him your feelings, does he get angry and refuse to stop or does he listen to your needs? Everyone has their own opinions of what specifically can be considered cheating but it's what matters to you and your husband that really matters.

Answer 3

How do you think he would feel if he found out that YOU were having "net sex" with a guy you slept with or any guy for that matter?? Yah, probably NOT happy.

If your husband is having "net sex" with another woman then
you must find out WHY. Ask him what you are not doing for him.
Ask him why he feels the need to go elsewhere. Maybe try spicing up your sex life. Dont get me wrong this is NOT your fault, but men are horn dogs, I would see if a little added spice in
your sex life changes things.........if not......then leave.

To answer your question..........YES.......any type of sex with another person other than your spouse IS CHEATING!!!

Good luck!!

Answer 4

Yes, he has emotionally cheated on you. The Savior said that if you look on a woman to lust after her, you have committed adultery in your heart. Your husband has committted adultery with this ex flame several times and probably masturbated to his fantasies as well. His heart is not where it should be, with you. He needs to recognize his error, confess and beg for forgiveness and never stray from you again. If you think he can do that or believe that he can do that, then give him the benefit of the doubt and try his word. If you think he will do it again and again then you need to throw down the ultimatum. He needs to make a choice, does he want you or her? Don't waste too much time on a cheater.

Answer 5

oh my gosh YES

first of all he shouldn't even be thinking of someone else. If he is this time he wants other girls or thoughts over you. But the fact that it is a past girlfriend who he infact slept with is horrible. LEAVE HIM. He is closing his eyes and picturing her. He is having sex with HER in his head not you. Want to hear something that will piss you off....if he is doing that then he wants her and you can be sure that when you have sex with him he is picturing her and wishing he was on top of someone else. Some people think guys looking at other girls like is a sexual way is okay. I don't but I still understand to a piont. I don't understand this. I would bet so much money on the fact that he has or soon will sleep with someone else. He is cheating on you

Answer 6

A married person sharing intimacies with someone other than the spouse is most definately cheating. The venue doesn't matter. It's a broken vow. Would he tolerate that behavior from you? DON'T let this go. You have to either work it out if you value your marriage or get a divorce. Dont be disrespected. You are not a doormat.

Answer 7

If it was my man, I would be deeply disappointed and I would make sure he knew that. Then I would make certain that he was sorry and was willing to never do such a thing again. I married a man that would never do such a thing to begin with though so I guess I'm lucky. I also married a virgin so I'd never have to deal with any old scares such as an ex-fling. Still, this is something that should be discussed openly between you and maybe get marriage counseling. You need to make sure that he knows that what he did was wrong and he needs to make it up to you.

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

Yes! Regardless if it's physical or just communicating, anytime you're expressing regards towards intimacy to someone behind your lovers back, you're cheating.
And, this isn't just a woman he met off the net, it's someone he slept with before. I'd say there's some emotions attached with this cyber relationship.

Answer 10

No, he's not cheating.

Unfortunately, "cheating" has a very narrow definition that allows only for direct physical contact. Although he masturbates while he says he can still taste her and remembers what her genitals felt like on his, he has very cleverly found a loophole in the definition of cheating. Regrettably, his actions are completely acceptable.

Sorry to break the bad news.

*********************************************************

NOTE ADDED:

Sometimes I get carried away with my sarcasm. I responded the way I did because OF COURSE it's cheating. But I'm afraid that I was insensitive to your situation, and I'd like to say that I'm very sorry for that. It must be an awful thing to find out, and I was a jerk about it. Please accept my apologies. I hope you're okay.

Answer 11

sister - cheating is cheating! If he wouldnt want you to know about it - its cheating. Emotional Cheating can be worse than physical cheating, just ask Jennifer Anniston (and look how that one turned out) And for it to be someone he slept with before - sounds like it is emotional AND physical cheating. If you want to save this marriage (and i cant imagine why you would) you need some serious marriage counseling. You deserve better. . .