Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2006

First time asking. I don't know what to do. I'm an organized 36 year old guy, married 12 years with an 11 year old son, that just bought a house. I'm not happy and am questioning if the grass is greener on the other side. Yes, I can deal with life as is for the next 10 years or more, but is it worth it? I got married when I got my girlfriend pregnant, it was the right thing to do. After my son was born, she became very religious, SDA to be exact. So, she's very sexually conservative, and is not into me that way, which is something I "think" I need allot of (I also know I being a guy I want what I can't have). Because of the religion I can't raise my son the way I want. No Halloween, Santa, Easter Bunny. My wife and son don't do things on sabbath as I do.. Nutshell; shes very conservative and I'm a wild party guy. She doen't spend money and is 0 maintenance. On the other side, I could have a hot high maintanance wife that blows all my money. Wish there was more space.

2006-10-31 09:16:57 · 34 answers · asked by El Conquistador 1

Im miserable - I just found out about my new husband cheating on me - but Im not sure how far it went. We had been going out for about a year when my Dad who had cancer got a bad checkup and was not given long to live. He asked me to marry him so my dad could walk me down the aisle. Now its 9 months later - my dad died - and I just found out that he went to a lot of trouble to contact this girl he went out with 3 years ago. Ive been very depressed about my dads death and now this! I found his emails to her - he sent her pictures of his pen** and told her how he could still feel the electricity in their kiss and how he made a mistake in not being with her because I micromanage his life. They had explicit net sex - I mean stuff that made me throw up when I read it it was so XXX rated. Him talking about what she felt like and how she smelled and how good she tasted - they were going to meet and I dont know for sure if they did - how do I confront him about this - what do I do?

2006-10-31 09:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by teresapowers 1

why do people change after marriage? How difficult is it to keep the fire burning?

2006-10-31 09:13:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rochelle5969 2

Not a best friend just a friend

2006-10-31 09:05:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just left me for another woman. He says he wants me to meet this other woman and become friends with her. Am I in the right to tell him no that I don't want anything to do with the woman he left me for?

2006-10-31 09:03:04 · 23 answers · asked by last_red_dragon 2

2006-10-31 08:56:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I say, the position of the toilet seat is the responsibility of he or she whose rear end is about to be parked upon it.

Ladies, if you think it's reasonably the man's responsibility to put the seat down after he urinates, consider how you would react if your husband/boyfriend said, "Honey, you forgot to put the seat up again, so I ended up pissing all over the seat."

Nyah.

2006-10-31 08:53:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

That the people promoting leaving ones spouse, in answer after answer in this same section, appear to be desperate, spamming and weak client building family attorneys who probably had a bad childhood or will sell anything they have for dough??

I was talking to my labor attorney about this earlier today, and most of my family are attorneys, and agree with this unhappiness and desperate, evil-disturbed projected side to their picking this type of law. Go ahead, check out some of the answerers answers in this section......you'll get a laugh

2006-10-31 08:46:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I haven't cuddled or really been together for the past month because he lost his job and just plays video games until the early morning. What should I do? I don't want to be too demanding.

2006-10-31 08:42:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok....I have been having a long-ruinning affair with a married gal.
We get together once a month - its just a physical relationship.
We almost always meet at her house - i'll admit the thrill of being in her house - in "their" bed...has always been exciting.
We are getting together tomorrow morning -
if YOU were me, what things would you like to do at their house?
We have done it in every room , she has called her husband "just to talk" while we were in their bed, we have stained HIS favorite Lazy-boy chair....
Any other ideas to do while i am there??
What else could be exciting/kinky to do at their house??

2006-10-31 08:41:30 · 27 answers · asked by daves_1348 1

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2006-10-31 08:41:05 · 9 answers · asked by Sicilian Princess 2

have mind blowing sex with their spouse before going to work? Just wondering!

2006-10-31 08:39:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel like i am about to loose it? does anyone know if there is any support groups in Killeen for people who have cheating spouses!

2006-10-31 08:37:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband got married about 2 years ago 7 months after we married my husband was in a terrible accident that caused him to lose feeling in his lower extremities. i tried to deal with it the best way i could but im losing it he cant do much for me anymore what should i do i dont want to hurt him but i ran out out toys to play with

2006-10-31 08:36:39 · 20 answers · asked by Stop u Killin Me! 1

My work situation has me away from home M-F. I have been at this schedule for three months now, but it is getting harder. I got in with my dream company, but I have to go through this year long training and I am really starting to struggle. Any help from people who have been in my situation please help!

2006-10-31 08:36:36 · 20 answers · asked by Paka 2

2006-10-31 08:29:54 · 32 answers · asked by nima_kharrazi 2

I was watching the penn and teller show and they had an episode opposing circumcision. Apparently there is huge movement to make the procedure illegal. They argued that not a single medical organization in the U.S.A. recomends the procedure and that it has no real medical benefits, other then lowering urine tract infections which are more easily curable with antibiotics then with circumcision. Do you think this procedure should be illigal???

2006-10-31 08:27:24 · 9 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

will be screwed up? Something I saw in my marriage and I can't forgive my husband for this. How do I?

2006-10-31 08:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by elaine_brc 1

2006-10-31 08:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 08:23:31 · 46 answers · asked by tracy d 1

is just my bf is gonna be gone for 2 1/2 years and its been 1 already and im just craving.i just want to do it once and thats all.plus he cheated once so y not.

2006-10-31 08:23:05 · 18 answers · asked by super girl 3

Sometimes the truth just hurts! When he hurts you verbally, you take the chance to shoot back what's bad about him coz he just did it to you!? And if you wait later to tell him during happy times, you're not gonna be able to portray your true feelings coz you're happy! So this battle never ends! What should we do? Tell them or not?

2006-10-31 08:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by AskClara 1

Can love still exist if she cheated on me. I still love her very much and she said that she would never do it again. She seems very upset about the fact that she did it. I never thought she would, but she did. I love her and don't want to lose her. What can I do?

2006-10-31 08:16:03 · 30 answers · asked by LAWDOGG 2

2006-10-31 08:13:48 · 30 answers · asked by Mex d'or 2

Or should i expect my husband to pay for me. Specially for ladies what would you expect or not, Would you like to work after or stay home?

2006-10-31 08:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Fantasy 1

I have been seeing my bf for the past 5wks, and I am at the end of a divorce. He really wants to meet my kids, and he swears he wants to be serious with me ... should I let him meet the kids ... or should I wait?

2006-10-31 08:07:16 · 20 answers · asked by bettiepagefan25 2

or u blame the man for giving in? I think i blame the married man who folds and gets weak.....

2006-10-31 08:04:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, she was at the store with me and I was getting a few things for the car and as we walked out she saw a Coke drink machine and asked if she could borrow a dollar to get a diet coke. I told her not tonight sweetheart and then she started saying "please" really sweet and I just held her hand and lovingly but firmly said not tonight sweetie. Then she asked me why and I told her it was kind of late and I didn't want her having all that caffeine before bed. Then she started saying how I never let her do anything fun and all this. I told her that wasn't true and she needed to cut it out right now with that. Well, she stuck her tongue out at me. I know she was playing around but I felt like I had been more than enough patient with her and she needed to listen to me when I said she needed to cut it out. Well I told her she couldn't watch tv for three days because it was probably some commercials on tv that caused her to want to drink so bad. Was I overexcessive in the punishment?

2006-10-31 08:04:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

The coca plant, used to create cocain, is still and ingrediant coca-cola. The coca plant is "spent" by the time it is used as an ingrediant and the cocaine is filtered out of the coca plant before its used as an ingrediant. Problem is, they cant filter the cocaine at the molecular level, so there is still traces of cocaine in coca-cola. How does that make you feel?????

2006-10-31 07:57:52 · 19 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1

2006-10-31 07:57:26 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous