or u blame the man for giving in? I think i blame the married man who folds and gets weak.....
2006-10-31 08:04:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I blame the man - it shouldnt matter how many desperate women flung themselves at him - hes married and should respect his wife enough to keep his pants on. Married people still attract other people - of course, its how they react to it that causes affairs.
2006-10-31 08:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both should share the blame,as he had the will to turn her down, but she most likely persued him with a vengance, maybe when the marriage had some problems, so she saw her chance to move in for the kill, and take something that wasn't hers.she convinced an already mixed up man that he needed to leave his wife.she puts on a good show until the wife is out of the picture, she pretends to be nothing like what he left. i think women who steal other woman's husbands are unstable, and they lack compassion, all they know is they want this man, married or not. and they do their best to get him, with sex, or emotional support, she is anything he wants her to be until the divorce.she is a preditor, and has nothing going for her in her life, so she is an opportunist, who is there when problems in the marriage occur, and she sees her opportunity. but if it had not been for her presence in the marriage, and her coaxing him, he might have been able to see that his marriage did have hope, he could have seen the hurt his wife was feeling.but the other woman keeps him on a short string, convincing him that he needs to get the divorce asap. and move on with her. ofcourse he shares the blame also for being a coward, and not wanting to put any effort into reconciliation.
2006-10-31 08:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work at a club and get alot of girls hitting on me, even worse so when they see the ring. i believe it is the fact that some women wants u so u must have some good qualities, or that they just enjoy married men as a trophy, as to say yeah he's married but i'm better than his wife. It would be easy to jump one of the little hotties, but why when I get almost more than I can handle at home, the fire is burning hot where I am at so why risk it all with a little spark.
2006-10-31 08:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by erker34 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I blame both the married man and his mistress, however I put much more of the blame on the married man. It is the one who is married that has the most to lose. The "other woman" could care less about anybody but herself. The married man is putting is entire family at risk all for sex. He has everything to lose, and she has everything to gain.
2006-10-31 08:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women who go after married men do not want commitment, they have no lives of their own they need to get a life. Married men who cheat should share the blame too they can't have their cake and eat it too.
2006-10-31 08:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think both are to blame if the other woman is aware that the man is married.
2006-10-31 08:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by lilbitadevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion a woman who seeks out a married man to lure him away from his family is a selfish witch. She is only thinking of her and not of the family, the wife, the children. Wrecking a home is not a game. Once the family unit is destroyed then our society is destroyed. She should learn some values and grow up!
2006-10-31 08:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Diacro 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good ? and very good answers, and yes if the man crosses that line & gives in to her temptation. He is the blame, he didn't ask his was is it worth it. Temptation is basically anything that you want, but know that you shouldn't have. You can obtain it in most cases but the repercussions may not be worth it. In the end, you have to weigh the pros and cons and ask yourself, "Is it worth it". So I say to all married men, don't put yourself in situations that harbor or breed these types of temptations. Temptation is a way of being tested by the enemy,and we gain strength by not giving in, and that is how we gain power over it and come out the winner. When I was married it worked for me!!!
2006-10-31 08:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i blame both.
the man because he KNEW he was married, and by going after someone else,well, that's giving in. no matter how hard she may try to get him he should stay loyal, thats what marriage is about.
i blame the woman because she needs to stay away from the man, because he already has a women. the homewrecker is a little slut.
2006-10-31 08:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by amber h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they're stupid and dont know how to find a man of their own.
I agree.. I would have to blame the man for giving in and breaking the vows.... But i dont exclude the homewrecker either.
2006-10-31 08:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sicilian Princess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋