me and my husband got married about 2 years ago 7 months after we married my husband was in a terrible accident that caused him to lose feeling in his lower extremities. i tried to deal with it the best way i could but im losing it he cant do much for me anymore what should i do i dont want to hurt him but i ran out out toys to play with
2006-10-31 08:36:39 · 20 answers · asked by Stop u Killin Me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is the "bad" part of "To love him through the good and the bad", You think this is driving you crazy? Imagine how he feels. Learn to do other things. Get some more toys, etc. You need to stick by him through this dark period. It is your duty as a spouse and as a human being.
2006-10-31 08:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, wow, what a horrible thing to be dealing with. Sit and talk to him like the man you married and tell him honestly how you are feeling, he won't like it, but you are a woman who has needs that cannot be fulfilled by your living husband, and toys aren't living, you need that human touch.
2006-10-31 08:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you not vow to love him and to be faithful in sickness and in health? I've never used a "toy" in my life, and I guess if it came to that, I might, but I'd never move on because of it. Think of how he must feel knowing he cant do anything for you, or himself. You're a horrible wife. It's time to put your feelings aside and just love him for him, not for the pleasure he can give you.
2006-10-31 09:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by rdnkchic2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate answering a question with a question, but I have to ask this - if your hubby suddenly came to you and said he wanted you to leave him because he knows he can't satisfy you, would you go? Have you even considered how he feels, that he knows that he's not satisfying you and feels really crappy about it?
Maybe this is a discussion you should be having with him.
Good Luck to both of you!
Aloha!!
2006-10-31 08:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him still, sit on his face! If not, figure out what the real reason is for wanting to leave, tell him, then leave. Have enough courtesy and respect to be honest. Tell him you love him but your not in love with him anymore>
2006-10-31 08:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by kimmee1072 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so selfish would be a starter as to what you should do. Perhaps you could spend some of your free time in a grammer class.
2006-10-31 08:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for better or for worse syndrome. Not much you can do. you have to be faithful to the man you married. Or you could give me your number and i could service you as needed.
2006-10-31 08:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by veerfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have You and your husband might consider penile implants, It could save your marriage.
2006-10-31 15:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by cruizer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has hands and a mouth, be creative you don't need toys.
2006-10-31 08:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Paka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my it's been at least 5 years for me, but i got a good mind so i use fantasys, and my man gives me oral pleasure
2006-10-31 08:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋