My husband just left me for another woman. He says he wants me to meet this other woman and become friends with her. Am I in the right to tell him no that I don't want anything to do with the woman he left me for?
2006-10-31 09:03:04 · 23 answers · asked by last_red_dragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have one kid together
2006-10-31 09:22:07 · update #1
Is your husband smoking something? Why does he think you would want to be friend's with the person who wrecked your marriage. Tell him at best you'd be civil to her if, and only if, she has any interaction with your kid, but not to expect anymore than that.
2006-10-31 09:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. My husband's ex sent me a message on myspace (how high school) and asked if we could be friends. I never responded because I didnt want to seem rude or jealous, but Who really wants to be friends with their husband's ex, or with the woman he left you for. That's dumb. Now if you have kids together, I say be sociable, and not cause problems, but if you dont have kids, I wouldnt even talk to him much less her.
2006-10-31 17:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by rdnkchic2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be friends with whoever you want. Personally I think it would be awkward. What are you going to talk about with her...pretty sure some things would involve your ex husband. I think it is a stupid idea he is being a jerk. He is just trying to make you angry. Why in the world would you befriend a person who is sleeping with someone you wanted to be with forever. Its not fair. Start seeing a guy and make him be friends with him just to see what he would do. And let him know before that this guy is amazing in bed.
2006-10-31 17:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by vidamar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cheating ex wanted me to meet the stupid girl who is with him, I said NO! Why would I want to be friendly with her...better yet why would he want me to be friendly with her and tell her all the stuff about him. I have no respect for a woman that will date a father that does not see his kids or even pay child support, so how can I respect her!
2006-10-31 17:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Marcie E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could he say something like this to you! thats so stupid!!there is no way i would be friends with the woman that my husband left me for!!!no way...
2006-10-31 17:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are in the right to do that, however if there are children involved you may want to meet her, and be cordial to her. You do not by any means have to like her and be her friend though..
2006-10-31 17:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still talking to him? It's hurts enough that he left you for someone else, don't waste your time. Time for you to move on make friends of your own!
2006-10-31 17:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by CLW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left you... He has no bloody right to expect anything from you. he sounds a little controlling . actually he sounds like a dumb ***. tell him to get lost and move on. you are better off with out him..
2006-10-31 17:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U absolutly have that right!! What do u owe him?? Also, if u have no kids together, I suggest cutting ties with him as well!
2006-10-31 17:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! What is he thinking? His request is just another way to demean and disrespect you. You have no obligation to him, and you certainly do not have one to the tramp that stole him from you.
2006-10-31 17:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋