2006-10-31 08:29:54 · 32 answers · asked by nima_kharrazi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u love her then you should convert i guess. I have heard this before..do u care about your religion? if u do then don't if you don't then do.
Personally, I don't believe in any religion. and I think if u love her what's wrong in converting? you don't lose anything right?
besides ask for a deal..in the muslim religion, you can have more than one wife...at any point you are fed up of this girl go get another wife...you are allowed to have more than one wife but make sure you are wealthy so u can take care of two wives....
or say talak three times and go get another women i guess right?
cool that's a great deal i think!!!!
2006-10-31 08:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is how it starts, next she will be saying she doesn't love you unless you strap some c4 to your chest and blow up the empire state building.
Tell her SHE must convert. If she is a good muslim, then the man, as her lord, tells her to convert so she must obey. See if that deprograms the brainwashing that her terrorist parents have instilled in her.
If her parents don't accept you who gives a crap, that means less food to dole out at thanksgiving and less fighting about the in laws.
If she won't convert for you, then she has been so brainwashed by thier crap that she will never love you anyway.
2006-10-31 08:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never good idea to convert if you are not true believer.
On the other hand Muslims are permitted to marry Christians or Jews. I believe that men and women are, so where is the problem with the parents, maybe it is just an excuse.
2006-10-31 09:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you want her parents to accept you, it would sure make life alot easier if it was that simple anyhow. Does it really matter? In time her parents will understand shes happy and want her to stay that way regardless of who she is with.
You also have to understand that just saying "Oh i converted" is probably not going to be good enough. They will want you to do things by the book, which could make life very difficult on you and her. I dont know much about being muslim but are you willing to pray a few times a day and attend services often (and i do mean OFTEN..lol) to a god you know nothing about? Are you willing to follow their rules and beliefs even if they arent the same as yours?
I wouldnt compromise what i believe in to make ANYONE happy. If your girlfreind accepts you as you are they will have to in time as well. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 08:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by falling_down23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Bad idea! You're not going out with her parents! That would be a false pretense to use just to be accepted by someone! You say convert. Do you actually believe in anything now? I know that if you have a real relationship with Jesus Christ, then you wouldn't even have asked this question. You need to decide what is most important in your life for now and hereafter; will it be a probably short lived relationship with someone, who can potentially lead you to not have a relationship with Jesus Christ, or should you put Him(Jesus) first, then see if you even need to ask this question! " A man who doesn't stand for something, will fall for anything".
2006-10-31 08:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey its all up to you, it has to be in ur heart. Learn about Islam, read some books, talk to him and make him tell you about his religion, and if you will find out that thats what u believe in then go ahead and convert. Thats what i did. I find out that this is the religion of truth and thats what i believe in. And think about future how about ur kids? u cant teach them both religions because being muslim takes the whole time and there is no way u can do both at the same time. Think what would be better.
Good luck...
2006-10-31 09:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't convert unless you are comfortable doing so. Her parents really need to get out of your relationship. You married her not them. You need to really check up on the muslim religion. If it is something you want to do, then you do it, but do it for you not for them.
2006-10-31 08:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not a good idea! there is no problem learning about different beliefs & religion but that religion is discpline and do NOT utalize worldly thoughts or beliefs- Eating habits eveything. Like I said your way of thinking will change. Your personality will be different. Nothing wrong with the religion but if your not for changing and converting for YOUR SAKE. just stay dating friends and find someone else- A slip up with a baby will definately mess things up. Christians are just as good- believe that!
2006-10-31 08:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go dealing with issues of religion unless you know that you're planning to marry. If shes just a girlfriend and probably wont be more, just tell the parents you respect their religion and dont spend much time with them - see your girlfriend and dont worry about them accepting you if it wont matter in the long run. If it is serious - tell them you are interested in learning more about their religion and what steps you would need to take to become involved in it.
2006-10-31 08:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you how to win them over strap on a bomb and walk in set it off and yell say hello to allah !!!!!!!!!and the all get like 80 virgins muslims are sick people .find a normal woman . dont convert . they clame to be peacefull the whole of the middle east has been at war for 1000 years they think they are better than anyone else . they are dirty people
2006-10-31 08:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋