Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2006

I put out a question yesterday about cheating on my wife, looked at the answers don"t really care if I'm a cheater I love my wife u try working away from home most of the year,see a nice girl to have fun with and take it from there! No I'm not gonna end my marriage or even tell her,u people would do the same if u were in my shoes p.s. I love my wife!!!!

2006-10-31 13:30:51 · 25 answers · asked by DoingItRight! 2

My husband and I have jokingly talked about watching a porn together one day. But I'm not sure whether or not it's a sin?

2006-10-31 13:24:33 · 22 answers · asked by navyprincess3476 1

its kind of been one of those "on the fence issues" for me. She is 26 now and we have been married for about 8 years. She took drivers ed in "high school" (she was homeschooled) because it was a required course by the state. Her parents decided she shouldn't be driving at that age because since she was a girl she would be kind of vulnerable driving by herself with all these weirdos out there. Well, when she married me I kind of felt the same way, plus I figured I could save money on insurance by her not driving, and save money on the cost of a second car. Plus, her mom and aunt live by and they can come pick her up and take her shopping or to the doctor's or something when I'm not there, so I figure its a also a nice way to get together with her family. Lastly, I kind of like to control where she goes. With a car, there is some level of independence and she might could go somewhere without my permission. However, she's a pretty good girl. Well, its her birthday now and she

2006-10-31 13:22:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i drink a lot when im home i drive a truck so i cant drink for a week or mayby two till i get home i do my best to take care of stufe around the house but i still love to drink i do my job and love my wife and kid and try and spend time with them but i still make time to drink beer my wife and i fuss about this but i want fuss back i hate to fuss no reason fo it

2006-10-31 13:20:04 · 21 answers · asked by runninglate 2

ok this is the story....
he dumped me because i dident talk 2 him because 1 peep said that he was gonna be ditchin m eso i had my firends go ask him to go somewhere in the school 4 a dance. And he got mad because my firends asked him not me also .... he said he just wants to be firends and im kinda okay with that but idk how i can be his firend when everytime i see him i cry??? (ps and i still kinda like him and is it my fault that he broke up with me and anyway i can win him back) (pss. 6th grade if that helps)

2006-10-31 13:19:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is pregnant with another mans baby and is now living with him. And oh by the way, I get this news 9 months into a year long deployment to Iraq. What a homecoming that was. Yeah, all the horror stories came true for me. 14 year marriage down the tubes. Why oh why did they abolish the alienation of affection laws in Tennessee? I just believe that the outside party of an adulterous relationship should be punished in some way shape or form.

2006-10-31 13:15:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 13:10:20 · 16 answers · asked by iasha a 1

Do you think she should stay with the relationship? He did volunteer the information without sneaking around. Would like to hear from the guys: When should she consider leaving vs. staying

2006-10-31 12:56:45 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1

we were in love back in high School, he says he never stop is this true?

2006-10-31 12:54:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married for three years and he has cheated on me several times. He's lied about his daughter beeing sick to go spend weekends away with other women.We had a fight one night becuse he was using drugs and I got cut really bad(NOT INTENTIONAL) but he called the police on me and I got locked up on crutches. he has done so much dirt that I can't forgive or forget. I have done every thing in my power to prove my love and I was the wife that did it all.what ever he needed I provided especially in the bedroom. But I finally had enough. Now my husband has been trying to act like a husband but I am numb from all the pain.There is someone from my past who was my soul mate who is incarcerated now but will be home in 2 years. I am still in love with him and he is still in love with me. Should I go back to my soul mate.?

2006-10-31 12:48:39 · 31 answers · asked by sex-c-one 1

2006-10-31 12:46:36 · 14 answers · asked by Diorio K 1

2006-10-31 12:35:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I maintain all payments towards the upkeep of the family home, however she has has changed the locks, will not allow me the keys to my Harley motorbike, maintains that I cannot remove it or my musical instruments from the family home as she needs them for her protection! She will not entertain dialgue on any level, it is her way or no way, she says she will sell all the items including my clothing, without my consent and against my wishes because she has posession, it is her entitlement, she says. Someone please help! Due to geography I am having difficulty finding a solicitor to take the case.

2006-10-31 12:29:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

think my wife has committed this sin , what to do ,need help what does the law say about this...

2006-10-31 12:27:41 · 15 answers · asked by tigman04 1

I wish i could date a man i like, but i don't think he likes me.He's apparently shy.Also the ones that likes me are very extremes in ages, one is 72 years old and another 18 years old.One too old another too young. On the other hand, my ex won't stay with the kids,only Sundays, maybe he doesn't want me to have free time. I feel i have a boring life.What can i do ? HELP PLEASE !!!!

2006-10-31 12:23:08 · 10 answers · asked by rssy r 1

2006-10-31 12:22:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

instantly feel attraction or did it grow over time? I met this guy that is really nice and is everything I'm looking for in a boyfriend but, I don't feel attracted to him. Will this change with time?

2006-10-31 12:13:05 · 21 answers · asked by cee cee 3

Sometimes I feel hopeless about the condition of my lovelife.

2006-10-31 12:11:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We moved to a new state, and since then, my husband has been less attentive. He used to buy me flowers or a card once in awhile. He still tells me he loves me, but does nto take the extra effort to show it. I suffer from depression and it has been worse lately. When I told him, he still has made no effort. I try and do special things for him. The more I think about it, the less we seem to have in common anymore. Our interests are different, and I do not like to argue. How should I approach this?

2006-10-31 12:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by rydhic 1

Sometimes I woke him up in the middle of the night cuz it's really driving me crazy! He felt sorry too,but that's not something he can control.

Any suggestions?Thanks!

2006-10-31 12:03:56 · 20 answers · asked by anne 1

My friend has just recently broken up from her husband. Only 4 weeks ago she has already sleped with 8 different men, Some of the things she says to me makes me think that she has a crush on my husband. She was invited over for dinner last night and we we looking at photos of my husband and myself and she said wow its a shame hes your husband thats the sort of body i would like. Then she said I need some shelves put up at my house could your hubby come and do it atleast I will be able to purve on the handy man. What should I say to her I have not told my hubby how I feel about this yet as he will think that I am paronied.

2006-10-31 11:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 5 years (together for 10) I love my husband, but im realizing im not in love anymore. Im only w/ him for our kids. I met a man a couple months ago through my brother. We hit it off quick. So much in commen and we can talk about anything. The problem is that were in love, madly in love. He already left his girlfriend because of me. My heart tells me that i want to be with this man, but i don't want to hurt my husband in any kind of way. What should i do and how should i do it?

2006-10-31 11:53:09 · 22 answers · asked by brwn_id_grl_4u 1

Is it because:

1. You are financially dependant on him?

2. The children?

3. You have no where else to go?

4. You are held against your will?

5. You stick it out in the (false) hope that he will change one day?

6. All or combination of the above?

7. Any other reason? please state.

Most importantly, what can anyone who is aware of your situation do to help?

1. Legal advice?

2. Financial help?

3. Relocation?

4. help finding another spouse?

5. help lines, emails, phone-ins, anonymous or otherwise?

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

2006-10-31 11:51:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for about sven yrs and 10 months, is it just the seven year itch. My husband says he has fallen out of love with me and he only loves me because I am the mother to his kids. We have had a very rocky summer & trying to mend our marriage. We are moving to a different town is this a right move. There was another woman involved, but she I guess is no longer in the picture. I am trying to work things out, but I feel like just givning up. We had a big argument over me not keeping that place clean, I have three kids a 1 & 4 year, you tell how do I keep the place clean. Also we are moving and I have been packing the last minute, but we don't even have a place to move our things. Help, help, help!!

2006-10-31 11:50:52 · 11 answers · asked by mom 2

if you read my other ??'s youll get a better picture. he has cheated in the past, but willing to work it out, now we have been having problems and i left about 2mons ago and now i know he is cheating for sure again. but i love him and i want 2 work things out but he says he is sorry he know how he f/up but doesnt give any signs of him wanting 2 work things out, i dont want to beg anymore, i have for the past 6mon, i know i should move on but how, how do i start, how do i stop calling him i know am only pushing him away, and i dont want us to be over, am i in denial!!!!

2006-10-31 11:49:37 · 12 answers · asked by why 1

Is it because:

1. You are financially dependant on him?

2. The children?

3. You have no where else to go?

4. You are held against your will?

5. You stick it out in the (false) hope that he will change one day?

6. All or combination of the above?

7. Any other reason? please state.

Most importantly, what can anyone who is aware of your situation do to help?

1. Legal advice?

2. Financial help?

3. Relocation?

4. help finding another spouse?

5. help lines, emails, phone-ins, anonymous or otherwise?

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

2006-10-31 11:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband more than anything in this world but he's been gone since August. I've seen him once when he came to visit me and the kids. I've done a lot of soul searching and I want our marriage to work but how can it if he won't go to counseling with me to work out our issues. He says he needs time and that he doesn't trust me.

2006-10-31 11:35:44 · 24 answers · asked by Dena B 1

2006-10-31 11:34:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have lived together for two years, and together for 2 1/2. We have talked about getting ingauged, marriage, and children. He says he is waiting for the right momment for ingaugement. His family loves me, and my family loves him. I just don't know, I thought getting ingauged was supposed to be the right moment when ever, like if its ment to be then why is it taking so long. Am I being impatient or parinoid...or maybe its because im only 20 going on 21...???

2006-10-31 11:33:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 11:30:49 · 43 answers · asked by jo.gonzalez 2