think my wife has committed this sin , what to do ,need help what does the law say about this...
2006-10-31 12:27:41 · 15 answers · asked by tigman04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever law there is about adultery is antiquated and inapplicable. It is commonplace and usually has no bearing on anyone's ability to have custody of children, etc. It's a good grounds for a divorce if you need it.
2006-10-31 12:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the first thing would be to make sure because you don't sound too sure and yet you're already thinking of going to the law?So that means if she really has committed adultery then you don't want to forgive her or talk to her to settle it or ask for an explanation or anything?
If that's the case then make sure of it first then look for a lawyer.
If you're willing to listen to her explanation or even willing to forgive her then don't involve the law or any lawyer but maybe a marriage counsellor would be helpful if you really need professional help.
Personally, I think you deserve an explanation and if you think the marriage is still worth fighting for then go for it!
2006-10-31 20:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by ivy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, so learn from my mistakes....
1. Keep quiet - for now. If you have a hunch, it's probably right. Look online for list of things cheaters do and if she qualifies,,, get some info.
2. Look through email, cell phone records, find out where she goes...etc.
3. Hire a PI to follow her if you need to. Get photos.
The problem is, you're going to need as much info to confront her with so she can't wriggle out of "I have a feeling".
From there, hear her out. Get the truth. Take some time off for yourself and figure things out. Find an even headed friend who can help you make solid decision. You will not be able to do this alone - you're emotions will be too high. Take time out for yourself, make a clear decision, and get into therapy either as a couple by yourself.
Strap yourself in bud, this is a bumpy ride.
I'm really sory.
2006-10-31 22:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try marital counseling if you want to make the marriage work. There are no laws in the United States that govern infidelity in marriage. You could file for divorce if you are not willing to try to work things out.
2006-10-31 20:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society doesn't care anymore about who sleeps with who, it's a sin in god's eyes. what to do? 2 choices, divorce, or reconciliation. if u do take her back,know that a hurt heart takes time to heal, it can only heal if the one who hurt u acknowledges what she did, and knows and is willing to admit it is wrong. you just can't trust easily, u have to see a spouse that is repentent, a spouse that is willing to go to therapy with you. and your part in it would be to set boundaries, boundaries are only for you not the other person. u need to communicate your hurt, and talk about it.the boundaries u set with her must be clear to her, and she must know that if it happens again that it has consequences. words are cheap, they don't mean a thing, what do her actions say? only you can decide what is best for you.
2006-10-31 20:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "think" she has, but you don't know and your already wondering about what the law says? Who gives a **** what the law says...find out the truth and take it from there...
2006-10-31 20:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the law says that it is proper grounds for divorce.
I agree with *beautiful* you can divorce her or forgive her AND go to counselling to get her to get her act together.
2006-10-31 20:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Querida 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
confirn and confront
there is no law agaginst cheating but the bible does say that u can leave a partner if he/ she has commted adultry.
but make sure u know if she is cheatin first then its all up to u if u want to be with her. no one else can decide
2006-10-31 20:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and talk to her.
law-prove it and you'll get the easier way out.
yourself-did you push her into adultery in any way that you can imagine?
2006-10-31 20:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no law really...the only law is between you and God.
2006-11-01 00:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋