My husband and I have jokingly talked about watching a porn together one day. But I'm not sure whether or not it's a sin?
2006-10-31 13:24:33 · 22 answers · asked by navyprincess3476 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, pornography is always a sin and it destroys intimacy in a marriage. It gets between the husband and the wife and it makes sex seem like an activity rather than a self giving act.
2006-10-31 14:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by anabasisx 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Just what do you think a sin is?
Do you think that God would be pleased that you watched other people having sex? Do you think that your relationship with God will be strengthened or do you think it will be weakened by you and your husband watching porn?
Theology aside, do you actually believe that your husband is going to cherish you more by watching some other woman commit sex acts with someone else? And, you think that his having that picture stored in his brain is a positive thing for your marriage?
2006-10-31 21:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by asperens 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Being 15, I find that (for lack of better terms) ew. I guess it can be considered giving in to lust, which is one of the 7 deadly sins, so I guess it technically IS a sin.
2006-10-31 21:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Aimers 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No it is not a sin for a husband and wife to watch xxx movies.
Myself, I think it is good to watch x_x movies together.
I know you are going to get several other opinions about this, but you be the judge on you and your husband watching the movies together.
Good Luck
2006-10-31 21:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
In Genesis 9:21, Noah got drunk with wine and passed out. One of his sons named Ham saw him naked and told his brothers. The other two brothers walked backwards and covered their pops (Noah) and didn't see his nakedness. when Noah woke up and found out what happened, He cursed his son Ham.
Back in them days you were cursed to see someone naked, the exception of course is your spouse. (Deuteronomy speaks more about what curses are.) So here is a case where there is no pornagraphy involved, just nakedness, and Ham was cursed. So what do you think pornagraphy will do you to?
So yes it is a sin to watch pornographic material. It influences sexual perversion. There is a spiritual power a demonic influence) behind pornography. You can research this more by reading your bible.
2006-10-31 22:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by cruizer 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it's a sin. I've done it. I'm sure there are other things that are done in life that would be looked down upon more than watching porn.
2006-10-31 21:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Angel2 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You probably won't like the answer, but yes. Teh commandment thou shalt not commit adultry doesn't just apply to the act of sex itself. It applies to looking and thinking lustfully about someone other than your spouse. I can't say for sure how God would feel about a lot of things if it's done in marriage though. Sodomy is a sin, but I've let my husband have fun with that, we play with toys, ect. These are things I've been told are wrong in general, but when I do these sertain things, I do them with my husband and only think of him, so I don't know what God would think about that.
2006-10-31 22:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
When I married my husband he had those kind movies in house. One day after he left to work I toke all the movies and put them in garbage and when he asked about them I told him he doesn't need them around any more, because I can do what they doing, ether me or them and since that day he is very happy man. If just know how to pleas your man. By the way for me it is a sin.
2006-10-31 21:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
What goes on between a husband and wife is their own business. Agree only if the girls on the tape are extremely ugly. LOL Just kidding.
Give it a try. If you really don't feel comfortable watching it then stop and don't do it again. Some men are really aroused by the sex acts viewed in porn.
2006-10-31 21:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's a sin for sure believe me. I never have watched it but I know it's a sin.
2006-10-31 21:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jasmine B 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋