we were in love back in high School, he says he never stop is this true?
2006-10-31 12:54:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps.
Trouble is, right now he is living in his past and if he leaves his wife he will be on the rebound. In neither case is he reliable, even to himself. He needs a few years living alone to get seasoned before you can trust him.
2006-10-31 12:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by slippped 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he loved you when you were in high school and has always loved you since then why isn't he married to you instead of his wife ,,,, You say he tells you he loves you ,,,,, Well that's nice but a good question is ,,,, How many others has he said the same thing to ,,,, not only in the past but right now while he's telling you the same thing ,,,, Young guys have no Idea what the words commitment ,, obligation ,, responsibility ,, or Fidelity means ,,,, It's always I do until they don't want to any more ,,,, Better look at his wife when he tells you he loves you ,,,, You could have been in her place while he's telling other girls he loves them you know ,,,, Allot of times a guy or girls too ,,,, figure out that they weren't in love after all ,,,, they were in lust but the sad thing about that is that that realization usually comes one or two or possible more children too late ,,,, I think you should feel lucky you didin't marry him ,,,, That you'd better look at this things from all angles ,,,,, And then drop him like a hot rock ,,,,,, Don't even talk to him any more ,,,,, Or well tell him you don't want to hear how he feels about you any more at least ,,,, As long as he's married then he's off limits ,,,, But what he's doing behind his wifes back right now is a good indication that he hasn't got in him what it takes to be a good husband any way so you are better off with out him ,,,,, Involving yourself with him has no profit or future in it for you ,,,, I'm sure you don't want the reputation of being a home wrecker ,,,, If he wants to fool around behind his wifes back then tell him to do it with some one else ,,,, Yoda said that ,,,,,
2006-10-31 13:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not true. If he had really loved you he would have married you not some other woman. Another thing to think about. This man is now cheating on his wife, or at least trying to. Do you think that he will not do the same thing to you?
Move on. Find a great guy that deserves you. If you are friends with the wife tell her what he is doing. Any woman deserves better than that looser.
2006-10-31 13:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by mooshiwawa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you so much, why didn't he marry you? I've heard peopl say this kind of thing before but somehow I just don't buy it. If he's married he's supposed to love her. If he's loved you allbof this time from a distance, why change things now? I would wait for the right person to come along and marry them. And he can still continue to love you.
2006-10-31 13:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be true or it can be a big con - be careful. Its possible that the current situation that he is in is not very ideal and he wants out. But what happens if he does the same thing with you down the road? If he doesnt love his wife or isnt happy - then he needs to resolve that before anything else. The real question is what you feel for him - if its mutual then do the right thing - it will mean more for you both down the road.
2006-10-31 13:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by etile 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he loved you then, what happened? If he is married is he talking to you in this way and his wife is still around? Would you think he would be in love with you if you were married to him, and he talked to another woman like that? Tell him to take a walk, find someone that is straight, that is only concerned about you with no thoughts of other woman on his mind. Once married, no other woman should be thought of .
2006-10-31 13:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that was back in HS, he is now married, by him telling you he never stop loving you what is that suppose to mean, he going to leave his wife and get with you. Grow up and find you something to do like pick up a good book or clean your little girl bedroom.
2006-10-31 13:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to wonder why he chose to marry his wife instead of you. He may have some sentimental nostalgic feelings for you and even miss the love he had with you but the bottom line is he is not YOUR husband and he IS someone else's. Leave him alone and let him go home.
2006-10-31 14:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if someone really does love a person and for whatever reason it doesnt work out. I believe that no matter how many years go by they will always have a peice of their heart that belongs to that other person. So i am sure he still cares for you and maybe even loves you. If thats true he really shouldnt of got married, and got over you first. He really needs to find out in his heart if he loves his wife, and which girl has more of his heart. Than when he finds out who is more important in his life than stick by this.
2006-10-31 12:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who cares if it's true or not. He's a married man, so stop listening to him. I'm sure he tells his wife the same thing.
2006-10-31 12:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋