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Being a virgin does not give a person the "seal of approval" in a marriage. Your life with her began when the two of you fell in love. What has happened previously in your life or hers should not be an issue.

2006-10-31 12:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by mom 4 · 0 0

Why on earth would you feel bad about that....and just exactly what do you feel bad about. Do you think that because she is a virgin you should be too?

Let me tell you something. Going into marriage it is a very good idea to have at least one with experience. That wedding night is stressful enough why add inexperience to it.

You have nothing to feel bad about. You only have to be sure you have no disease from before and you will be fine. She will appreciate that you do have experience more than you think.

2006-10-31 13:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0 0

Don't feel bad. We all have a past. If she's okay with it and accepts it then you don't have anything to feel bad for. I hope you don't push her into anything if she's planning on waiting until your married. If you do then you should feel bad. As for being normal, probably not anymore. There are not many people that wait for marriage and it's sad. Good for your fiance. I'm sure you must know what a strong women she is to not give in when there is so much pressure to have sex to fit in. Your a lucky man. Remember to be patient with her. Good luck.

2006-10-31 14:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0 0

I have had this very same thing happen to me.....minus the engagement.
#1. Do you feel bad cause you've had sex and not her?
If so, does she know? If not,... tell her. If she loves you for real it shouldn't matter!!!!!
#2. Well, it's not real normal nowadays but it happens.
#3. Has she ever asked you about it,( your sex exp.)
If so, you better have told her the truth! If not, then sounds like you want to tell her.
#4. Tell her!!! You're going to be married silly. Fear has no place in this type of commitment!!

2006-10-31 14:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by aprilsdad97 2 · 0 0

Can you say, jack pot.

Must be nice. Its like having a brand new porch and driving it for the first time, be gentle, slow. Go to fast and the engine will not have lube so it could get damaged, drive for a long time till the car is good and hot, then you might get to try out a race track, and drive like hell, have fun crossing the finish line,,, yeeehaaa

2006-10-31 12:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by scott in minnesota 3 · 0 0

Why do you feel bad, did you lie to her and tell her you were a virgin and now your conscience is getting to you? I don't understand! If she knows you are not a virgin, I would not allow this to bother me. Good luck and God bless

2006-10-31 12:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

Talk to her about your feelings; this will bring you closer and will help you not feel so bad about it. There isn't anything you can do to go back in time and change the way things are, so deal with it the best you can today.

2006-10-31 12:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by LiveLifeBeGood 2 · 0 0

Virginity is way over rated and has been used for generations to control women, make men feel guilty, and deny us the simple pleasure of being sexual beings.

2006-10-31 12:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0 1

There is not anything that you can do about it. Put all this in the past and look forward to the future. Be faithful since this is more important!

2006-10-31 12:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Then why did you pick her? Leave her alone and find someone else. Or respect her and build a relationship if you can. Get your head out of her panties, for goodness sake. She's a person!

2006-10-31 12:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by annettetyler77 3 · 0 0

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