My friend has just recently broken up from her husband. Only 4 weeks ago she has already sleped with 8 different men, Some of the things she says to me makes me think that she has a crush on my husband. She was invited over for dinner last night and we we looking at photos of my husband and myself and she said wow its a shame hes your husband thats the sort of body i would like. Then she said I need some shelves put up at my house could your hubby come and do it atleast I will be able to purve on the handy man. What should I say to her I have not told my hubby how I feel about this yet as he will think that I am paronied.
2006-10-31 11:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let her know in not so nice of terms that she can keep her comments to herself. If she can't then tell her she's no longer welcome in your home.
2006-10-31 13:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if I would call it a crush, but maybe she is trying to trade putting up shelves out for a little relaxation, and pleasure.
She sounds like she is desperate for attention, and that she is having a difficult time finding it.
I would be careful about letting him be her handy man, then it could become of him being her candy man. If you know what I mean.
Do you think that she might just be bragging about having 8 men?
If I was her, I would not be bragging about having 8 men, because if she is telling the truth, she probably should get checked out at a health clinic.
Be careful darling.
2006-10-31 12:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your hubby not to go, she is up to no good. my sister and husband who were married14 yrs. befriended this woman they knew going through a divorce,well guess what after my sister had been so good to her, she ran off with my brother in law.homewreckers don't have a concience, all they know is they see a good man, a man that can help them financially or emotionally, or sexually, a man that can fill their empty life. and than they persue him and the temptation is sometimes too much for a man to cope with. just keep him away from her, and keep her away from your home if your smart. stop it before it begins. if he should insist on going over to help her, make sure u are with him, protect your future and husband. if u value it than don't let any homewrecker destroy what u have worked so hard for.
2006-10-31 12:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to check her quick. Tell her that you do not share , your husband with anyone. Tell, her that you come over with your husband to help put up the shelves or ask him for a good handy he know that she can use .
2006-10-31 12:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to set her straight. Tell her no, your husband cannot do her shelves, and that you don't appreciate her talking about him like that.
Look for a friend who has some morals-sleeping with 8 different men in that time says some very nasty things about her. Choose quality people to hang with.
2006-10-31 11:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like she just needs any man that will make her feel like she is wanted or sexy. Tell her " no " he is not going to fix her shelves! be upfront -you need to tell her you don't like her behavior.If she is really your friend you can sit down and talk to her -Until you've had a chat with her --don't go around her especially with hubby!
2006-10-31 12:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by t m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried about having her around your husband and certainly wouldn't be sending him over to her house for handyman duties.
Doesn't sound like much of a friend.
2006-10-31 11:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's hot for him, and probably jealous that you're still married and she's not. Tell her "My husband is not the neighborhood handyman to be loaned out, sorry, he only works for me."
You should limit your contact with her- she seems like a loose cannon right now.
2006-10-31 11:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This woman is NOT your friend so get her out of your life as fast as you can and keep her far away from your husband.
2006-10-31 12:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything to him - but I wouldn't let him around her either! Keep him away from her or she will be trying something. Tell her that your husband is busy or something. Tell him that you don't want him over there!
2006-10-31 12:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" as very bad taste saying something like that to you...WHY is she your friend?...I wouldn't let my husband (if I had one) anywhere near her...sounds more than a bit on the slutty side...
2006-10-31 12:35:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋