A threesome with you, him, and the guy of your choice. Why or why not? Has this already happened with you? How did it go? Be specific.
2006-10-31 00:39:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would never have a threesome. I'm a one woman man
2006-10-31 00:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal with guys and threesomes? It would really back fire on them if their lady decided to leave them for the other guy. Back to your question...no, I wouldn't have a threesome, I think too highly of my marriage.
2006-10-31 00:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are single, then what you do is okay as it isn't going to create any distrust between two people who are meant to be committed. I honestly think that if someone had serious plans of sharing their bodies with others whilst they were married,would have to be one rock-solid marriage and most of us are by nature, insecure much of the time and so there would definitely be some come-backs on going into the world of swing!
A woman who lets her man get off with another woman, has got to be emotionally shut-down in some way even if she is involved herself and will have lasting effects for time to come. The same applies if a man allows another man to do his wife. It is the same for both sexes unless all involved have dissociative personalities.
It is not a good road to follow down unless that is one you intend to follow, but will cause untold damge emotionally and mentally and you will then find other coping mechanisms to stop feeling the guilt of the addiction.
2006-10-31 02:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in relationships, especially serious ones, should not mess around with threesomes with either men or women. They always ruin relationships. If this is something you want to do, either get a mistress and do it with her and another person or divorce your wife.
2006-10-31 00:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never have a threesome, nothing good could come out of doing something like that. A relationship won't survive, trust would be lost, you would always wonder if your spouse was being faithful. Its morally wrong and it goes against everything marriage stands for - that should be reason enough NOT to!!
2006-10-31 00:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was single, and unattached,... and VERY drunk, sounds like fun lol. But not while I'm married. A fantasy's a fantasy,... and thats where it stays. My husband would NEVER want to watch another man touch me, and I wouldn't want him to watch. I can just hear the arguments afterward.... and the comparison questions,... why did I moan when I moaned, and did the other guy give me a bigger orgasm than he did.... it would go on and on and it would never end....
Too many people follow through with these types of fantasies only thinking of the sexual aspect. But you have to consider what damage it can do to the trust and security inside the marriage. Most aren't able to survive it.
2006-10-31 01:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want it. I am not the type to bring in an outsider to my marriage. I also believe that the only one I should be with is my husband. I got married to him not some other guy, if I felt the need to be with someone else I would be with them not my husband.
2006-10-31 00:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~frankie~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys feel more comfortable when it's chick on chick,rather then some dude humpin' their chick..... I have tried both,it was far more relaxing and calming when having a threesome with another girl. We did once with a guy at a swingers club,ummm hubby didn't much enjoy that! so in the end becareful.
2006-10-31 00:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, that would mean he was gay. And then he may want threesomes all the time. I couldn't handle that
2006-10-31 03:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...I know my husband would never want a threesome. He just isnt kinky like that.
But if he did...Yes I would be interested.
2006-10-31 00:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Froggy*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not have a threesome i will only want to be with one man and that's it
2006-10-31 00:48:14 · answer #11 · answered by da princess of dade county 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋