should i have a threesome with my ex boyfriend?let me not 4get to mention that he is married and the girl wont be his wife but somebody else
2006-10-31 01:22:54 · 32 answers · asked by mina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he has been cheating on his wife for few years with different people so if its not me it will be somebody else we are still best friends and always will be regardless of this outcome
2006-10-31 01:47:04 · update #1
i personally would not, but that is really up to how you feel about your ex-boyfriend, especially since he is married - sounds like he is a manipulator and you are being used for his sexual escapades.
2006-10-31 01:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should and the guy must be a real creep to want to have a threesome with his ex girlfriend and another girl when he is soon to be married. I suggest you get away from the creep and maybe clue his soon to be bride on the jerk she is about to walk down the aisle with. Even if he has never had a threesome that should have been done back in his day or if he still wants it he should have brought it up with his fiance...
2006-10-31 01:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude is obviously a "scrub" b/c he's cheating on his wife and apparently it's his M.O.
Bottom LIne here is that if you're single you do what you want to with other "singles" but you don't mess with someone who has made a commitment such as marriage.
Have you no ethics? No morals?
If this guy were truly your "best friend" than you would be a friend to him and let him know how wrong it is to dishonor the commitment he made to his wife.
That's just what it is... He made a commitment to her to keep himself to only her...
Personally, I don't think you should even consider yourself his best friend because that "title" and "relationship" should only be for his own wife, definately not you.
If he has problems in his marriage (which looks to me as if HE is their problem) than he needs to "take care of home" first and either get his relationship with her together or take the necessary steps to move on.
At very least he is very selfish for taking her life from her with his cheating behavior. She is believing one thing and choosing to give him this part of her life due to what she is being told. (ie; he loves her, blah..blah..blah) How wrong is that?
SHE has a right to be told the truth and live her life with a man who will be committed to her alone. Basically, she has the right to be with a "man" and not a "mouse"....
Maybe you should think about this and choose to speak with this guy whom you refer to as your "best friend".
BTW.... He is only pretending to be your "BF" because he knows that he can dip his dick .... Get it? You're easy and you can get him what he wants...satisfy his selfish needs... with you or with another... I mean, you won't "tell".... He knows this and so while you're believing he's your best friend, he's playin' your ***.
Now how dumb are you?
2006-10-31 02:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the experience of a lifetime! Everybody should try it at least once when given the opportunity...to see if they like it. It is a unique experience to say the least. We don't need to play by the rules of the last century. We can be more open, honest, and creative now. Be discreet and don't hurt his wife's feelings.
2006-10-31 01:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im not soo sure about that it might end his marriage if his wife found out I wouldnt have a threesome with my boyfriend ever only if I was single and did it with two friends
2006-10-31 01:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should agree to it, but when the three of you arrive you and the other girl should only have sex with each other and completely ignore this dirtbag. Kick him out of the room and make him be forced to imagine the hot lesbian action he's missing out on being a part of for being a total loser.
2006-10-31 01:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Steven S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's an "Ex" for a reason......Why would you want this experience with this person ... is this on your to do list..... do you know the other members well ... could you be making a video and not know it? You need to think carefully be fore to go on.
We all do stupid & embarrising things ... but can you explain that one to your mother or your kids one day?
Be safe !
2006-10-31 01:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my gods thats the worst possible thing u could do. have a threesome with people who arent or ever been emotionally involved. thats the best way!
2006-10-31 04:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by amz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you want it go for it. It will probably be less sticky not being with his present wife. (if the wife is a friend of yours don't do it!) Don't do it to hurt his wife!
2006-10-31 01:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married and found out your husband had one, how would you feel??, remember what goes round comes round, always, just a matter of time.
2006-10-31 02:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋