A friend of my wife came over last night to borrow some makeup from her. During a discussion with my wife she said that she was going on a date with someone from work. When my wife asked her, "what if your husband find out?"...her girlfriend said, "he already knows...and it is ok". Has womans rights and modern dating evolved this far?
2006-10-31 01:40:24 · 18 answers · asked by Ricky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are probably swingers! He prolly does the same thing, kinda gross.....but whatever works for them I guess!
2006-10-31 01:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a "Open Marriage" ... I knew a couple years back that had the same arrangement. Not the average persons cup of tea.
I had a hard time getting over the apparent lack of jealousy and the ease of the "sure go ahead" thing ... it bugged me ...but I didn't have to live there.
Different stokes for different folk ... that's why Baskin Robbins has thirty one flavors I guess !
2006-10-31 09:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always joked with my wife that she could go out with another man and do the things she likes like to do, that I dont like, as long as she came home and slept with me. Then I realized how flawed that rationale was when I pondered, "what if having sex with someone else is what she likes to do".
A married man or woman dating anyone other then their spouse is not progressive. It is only the beginning of what will eventually be the end of that relationship.
2006-10-31 10:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy the world just keeps getting weirder and weirder but she could have been going out with a girlfriend . What man do you know is going to let his wife go on a date with another man?
2006-10-31 09:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people that forgot what marriage is suppose to be like. They think that it is more like dating. The idea of stay with one person for the rest of your life has gone out the window. It is a shame cause that is the way that marriage is sap's to be.
2006-10-31 09:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is total disregard of the sanctity of
marriage. It's infidelity any way you look at it.
The husband knowing and saying okay, He needs to
get a life. Both persons need a life, after
marriage and it's called divorce.
2006-10-31 10:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by caroline j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure doesn't sound like anything has evolved. This friend of your wife is openly cheating on her husband, and what's worse, he respects her so little that he doesn't even care. Sounds gross to me. Why is your wife friends with such a gal?
2006-10-31 10:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if her husband loves her if he does then no it is not alright.But if he does nt thn they should get divorced.But thn again thy may of both had dates.Who knows thy may have both brought them home to for a little whoop lala.I personally would not let my wife date another guy.
2006-10-31 09:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by xxxxxxxxxxxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
There is no problem with married people dating. I know a few that do that. Its called an open marriage. Its not for everyone,the ones i know are very happy people in very much in love with their better half.
2006-10-31 09:48:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I CAN say is that she's disrespectful and that's neither one of them know the meaning of loyalty and trust. once you're married dating is out unless you'r double dating with other couples.our society is going to be like sodom and gamora.for the man ,if you allow this you're either doing it too oryou don't need to be married
2006-10-31 09:58:31 · answer #10 · answered by LYFE IS A BIATCH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? This is not normal. My husband would never let me date (nor would I want to)! Maybe it was a work function, but even then my hubby would accompany me. Are they swingers or what!
2006-10-31 10:27:45 · answer #11 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋