My wife is always horny in the mornings. But I can't "perform" during that time because I'm always so tired and I need to get some rest before I got to work. And when I can't do it, she gets mad and she doesn't talk to me. What do I do?
2006-10-31 00:37:14 · 23 answers · asked by bubbalicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am fine but I am too tired to do it in the mornings.
2006-10-31 00:41:06 · update #1
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2006-10-31 00:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by DASH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the most frustrating things in this world is when you want it and cannot get it. really makes the temper so hot! if you cannot perform in the morning, then why not give her your all out best at night, before you go to bed. Really give it your best shot and satisfy her needs. Having sex is, as far as I know, the best way to release all the tension and give the body a full relaxation. By doing this, you also give yourself a break after a very hard days work and your wife will be totally spent after your lovemaking and both of you would have a really good nights sleep. Who knows, after a fitful rest, and a very memorable night of lovemaking, you might find yourself wanting to perform in the morning. Besides, maybe you have not been making love to your wife for a while now that's why she gets real horny in the morning.
2006-10-31 08:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel awake while in the shower maybe invite her in to join ya and have some fun in there. Try to go to bed earlier or perform with her at night to satisfy her drive. Most guys would be thrilled to wake up to a thing like that, so I say make any efforts you can otherwise you're gonna give off the wrong signals to her and you might lose her.
2006-10-31 08:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time off work or your comuter and wake up tomorrow morning; look at your wife like you looked at her when you married her. Tell her how beautiful she looks and spend a little time massaging her back, feet or hands.
She does not have the problem. You need to deal with you. If changing your mindset does not work, there are drugs for that type of thing.
All the best, I certainly wish I had your problem.
2006-10-31 08:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to strike a compromise of some kind. I'm not a morning person, but when I've managed to "rouse" myself for morning sex it's always been great.
How about morning sex on the weekends (or days off), and then she lets you go back to sleep? If you make the effort, you may be incredibly happy with the results.
If you're a drinker, you may have to cut down to get this kind of energy in the morning. But as I said, it's probably worth it.
2006-10-31 08:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i can think of fast enough to help ya is try going to bed a bit earlier and getting more sleep that way ya wake up just before her and by the time she wakes up you will be right to (excuse the way i put this) give her some if that dont work well shell just have to realise that you bring home the bacon and shes gonna have to live with it sorry if this dont help but hey i tried at least
2006-10-31 08:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you should do. Usually men are more ready to go in the mornings than at other times of the day. Perhaps you should go to a doctor and get checked out.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 08:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its understandable thqat you cant perform in the morning.. but hey your a lucky man to have her horny in the morning ,. .many men wish that ( im guessing) but i think that you should definitly make it up to0 her when you get home .. and really lay it down on her.. youll be surprise.. go by a bo0k that tells u how to0 spark up a mo0d and definitly put it on her,.. and remember on your days off too wake up early and beat her too it.. ENJOY
2006-10-31 08:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kiiss_MA_feeT_iiM_Royalty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some coffee then perform!!
I thought men wanted it in the morning and women never??
2006-10-31 10:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perform the night before so its the last thing on her mind in the morning
2006-10-31 08:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by djessellis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants you to show her some interest. Go to the adult store and buy her a "toy". Have her use it in front of you in the morning. Should take care of her, and might even get you interested in her a bit more.
2006-10-31 08:44:23 · answer #11 · answered by e. nigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋