im interested in chat (just for fun) but my husband tells me dont go to chatroom what should i do?
2006-10-31 21:53:35 · 21 answers · asked by shila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
respect what your husband is asking it called being married.
how would you feel if your husband said he wanted to do it.
and if your marriage is that dull you need to go to chat rooms then you need to work on your problems or get a divorce.
2006-10-31 22:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatrooms can be fun and good way to pass the time, but they are also full of pitfalls. Chatrooms are the singles bars of our time. If your husband doesn't want you to go to these online "singles bars," then I would suggest staying away from them. One exception to that advice would be to join a chatroom that's related to a hobby or interest area of yours.
2006-11-01 05:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by yanbarumuku 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you know sometimes my wife gives me warning signals about this and that girl that we know thru the family. To stay away from her and I'm like ?????? I don't even think of them sexually like that....but, my wife senses a threat I guess you could call it. So, I'd say if it makes you husband feel uneasy about you going into charrooms.... then decide is chatrooms really worth all the trouble they can cause? ( because you are really not missing that much) Your question, you decide the answer
2006-11-01 06:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are old enough to decide by your own....if you ever decide to chat even if he objects to it, just be sure that you go to chatroom where it is safe to chat....and always remember that you are married and wise enough to chat to anybody whom you know will not put you in any troubles later....i am in the same position wherein my husband doesn't want me to chat....but am still into chatting without his knowing though all my kids knows it...they understand and trust me well enough...they even chat with my chatmates....so far so good.....so my point here is...for as long as you're not doing anything bad, everything will be okay...Goodluck and enjoy life...
2006-11-01 06:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you might want to listen to him just out of respect, not because he can tell you what to do like you are his child. Im just saying this because when you chat, it is sometimes easy to find people you like to chat with that you find interesting, and even if its only online, you are able to really get close with people if you chat enough. Its like meeting somone somewhere and starting a relationship (even if its only friendship) out of nowhere. If you are married that might be questionable dont you think? It can lead to other things. Just because you arent meeting in person doesnt mean its harmless. Im just saying because i used to chat alot some years back, and I actually felt like I started to have feelings for this one person, who lived on the other side of the country. I had a boyfriend at the time who i later married but in the meantime i felt like i was starting to feel confused about my feelings and at one point there was a chance i was going to meet him because he was going to come to my state (he had family here) and I was scared to meet him because my feelings had grown so strong for him, i felt there was a chance i would be unfaithful. At the end we didnt meet up. My choice. One day he was sent to Bosnia because he was in the army and he wrote to me from there once but i never heard back from him again. If i did who knows what would have happened. Im not saying this is going to happen to you but what I am saying is that Im pretty sure this sort of thing has happened to many people, and it could happen to you without you meaning to. Probably you would never take it that far to become so engaged in talking to someone. but you might if you find someone online that has lots of things in common with you. You shouldnt put yourself in that position if it bothers your husband. At the end its your choice of course but just keep these things in mind. Good Luck
2006-11-01 06:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are honest in your relations there is no harm to go to chatrooms
2006-11-01 06:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your husband, he knows best. There are some undesirables in those chat rooms who will try to sweep you off of your feet.
2006-11-01 05:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rich T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can chat on putting questions and getting answers just you have done.
2006-11-01 05:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they came up with the term emotional or cyber-cheating. pretty self explanatory , if u are open to him doing likewise and trust is mutual in being exposed to all this factors then go ahead... warning some people out there are hunting for people like you to get their rocks off so be afraid...be very afraid!!!
2006-11-01 05:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by alephontime 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do it anyway, just be careful ! I'm doing it w/ this one guy and he's wonderful and very respectful. My husband says it's cool, only if I behave. I'm trying. So far, so good.
2006-11-01 05:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋