can one live and even sleep in the same bed with a guy that has crush/intrest in you without making luv?
2006-10-31 22:50:25 · 8 answers · asked by fantasy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes...but only to a certain point. When my husband and I started dating we did sleep overs with no sex. But after a few months of dating, the sex eventually happened and then there were no more sexless sleep overs.
2006-10-31 22:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these are two separate things. For the second, that would be up to you. However, that's a highly charged situation, and I'm not sure why you would want to put yourself into it? Faithful though you may be, there could always be the Night of Drunken Despair in your future, and, on a night like that, your intentions and actions might diverge.
For the first, well, yes. However, cheating in humans is very common. A blood study done in the first half of the last century involved taking blood samples from newborns, mothers, and fathers. A side effect of this study was the discovery that a significant percentage of the babies didn't match the daddies. I'm not saying that commonness equals okayness; after all, wife beating is still common. However, the author of the book in which I found a description of the study (_The Third Chimpanzee_) went on to suggest that cheating was in our genes. Personally, I don't care. The difference between us and the other animals is that we can choose our actions, so I'll never be able to shrug and accept cheating. Then again, I don't think we'll ever be rid of it.
2006-10-31 22:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes:
When my husband and I first dated we slept over and didnot have sex because he respected my decision that sex comes after marriage!
Then I realised that this guy can be potential marriage material!
When you love someone sex is the only thing in your relationship but there feelings and emotions comes first!
Love SANAM
2006-10-31 23:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea why not. It depends on how much u can control yourself and you make out of it.
2006-10-31 22:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! because once you love, you respect your love one....
2006-10-31 22:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that hard to believe
2006-10-31 23:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by bold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2006-10-31 22:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...of course...lol
2006-10-31 23:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋