and we decide to get married we are talking on the phone 24 hours we never sleep is that love? do i need to marry him?
2006-10-31 22:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my babes , meet this guy first.. Struggling to sleep at ny8 doesn't mean that u r in real luv. Meet him first n then take things from there. It's always gud to c the person behind the phone . Some pple donn act themselves over the phone . Meet him first and learn a lot abt him b4 u get married. wish u gud luck my friend.
2006-10-31 22:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you dont need to marry him! Talking on the phone 24 hours isnt love, but it does show a connection so Im not saying to throw in the towel. Im just saying you should build a stronger foundation before you make such a serious committment. I mean really, this is a very serious committment, and I bet in your gut you know that it is a committment that is too early to make. Whats the harm in taking some time to really get to know him...in person? What if he is really ugly? who cares? yeah right...this is the person that youre going to be having sex with for the rest of your life! what if he has filthy or disgusting habits? what if he is a convict? what if he is abusive? this are all things that you really dont know about him. I say take the time to find out before you take the plunge.
2006-11-01 06:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should slow down a little bit and make sure that he is what you think he is three months is a little to fast to get married. Now people do it and make it work but trust me you got your whole life to get married you should take your time. Some guys are truly good at hiding who they really are and some of the sweetest one's turn into the exact opposite after marriage.
2006-11-01 07:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by anon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not LOVE----it's the idea or the thought of being in LOVE that is charming you. You haven't met this person Nor do you really know this person-----talking on the phone ----well....just not the tangible idea I would consider as a romantic relationship.
MARRIED? Are you crazy----you don't even know this person!!
2006-11-01 06:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a quite an interesting story but i would not advise you to go into marriage just like that because you have not really met him, and again Marraige is a life contract for better or worse e.t.c unless you love to divorce .You have to meet him facially and personally, study him for a while and see if he his whom he says he his.After that if you are satisified with what you have observed in him then you can go on with the marraige but if not, please QUIT. I would not call that love . It is not love.......
2006-11-01 07:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by simon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold back on that thought!.........marriage? three months?.....you can't decide that he's the one for you to marry in the space of 3months......it's just infatuaton at the moment...give it way more time before making decisions about marriage.....in 3more months time you'll probably think on how stupid you both were even comtemplating it in the first place!...good luck anyway
2006-11-01 06:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to marry him, you have to be in love and feel that you want to be with him to marry him.
2006-11-01 06:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would at least meet him first and spend some time with him in person, who knows you might meet him and he might be a troll and you might get a totally different opinion of him.
2006-11-01 06:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u crazy you don't even know him..you are young get married when your 40 and have fun now
2006-11-01 08:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by miss v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and jump on me for saying this, but live togather for a year or two.use birth controle and then decide your course of further action and rationalize your decision.
2006-11-01 06:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋