i feel frustrated and ignored .he does not have time to talk to me. any free time he has he spends exercising. i do not think he would brteak his exercise schdule even if i am dead . what do i do
p.s. i still love him
2006-10-31 23:39:50 · 17 answers · asked by SJM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since your husband seems to like living his life by a schedule, ask him to start scheduling time for YOU! ... Like maybe a 'household business meeting' once a week, a 'social hour' a few times a few times a week, AND ... don't leave out scheduling romance.
When married people expect communication, caring, and romance to "just happen" or "be spontaneous" ... that is a recipe for NO communication, caring, or romance. These things happen when you plan for them and make them happen.
Does a great dinner appear on the table spontaneously? Of course not, you have to plan the menu, plan the shopping. Just give him a day-planner or calendar and ask him to go over his schedule with you. Point out (nicely, without nagging) that he isn't scheduling any time for his marital responsibilities.
2006-11-01 00:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hearken to your husband is an ******. Sorry, there is no different thank you to place. however the reality is he will no longer exchange. adult men like that are under pressure to think of and act like that. while me and my spouse began residing mutually it wasn't an argument in any respect. We tailored like a number of couples do. He desires to evolve or you the two handle how he's and settle for it. He desires to comprehend which you do extra desirable than sufficient at domicile and he can no longer make the main of you because of the fact he works. My spouse seems after our 2 youthful females mutually as I artwork. until now I go away for artwork I prepare my daughters breakfast and now and lower back once I relatively have time make the beds. i do no longer concepts for the reason this is a set attempt. once I come domicile i do the dishes while we eat dinner. I used to do the laundry yet no longer anymore because of the fact that our new place of residing development has a laundry facility. look no longer all adult men like your husband. Many adapt and start to do issues on their own w/out having to ask. I had to evolve my spouse no longer being a morning individual. specific there are worst husbands available, yet that would not remember. he's your husband and you have a infant mutually and asking him to help should not be an argument. in case you do no longer see any transformations quickly, then you definately might ought to settle for him for what he's. we at the instant are not previous the two, i'm 32 and she or he's 28. regrettably nonetheless, she's now my ex.
2016-11-26 21:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by paschal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where does he exercise at a gym or Home? If he goes to the gym she if you can go with him and excesses together. Same thing if do it at home. The difference at home is take something off after every exercise and she how he reacts until you are naked. If he's smart and normal he'll want you. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 23:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Workout with him if you are able too. Eevn if you don't like doing it. If you can't workout, find another activity that he enjoys and join in with him. You can spend time together then and talk with him. Let him know how you feel. Don't put him on the defensive side. It'll only cause an arguement and you won't get anywhere.
2006-10-31 23:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a shame that is! You must speak to him and explain your feelings, so the two of you can fix this. You are feeling resentful that it takes time away from you, and he may not even realize it. Is he just too focused on his body image, or is he doing this for health reasons? For the health of your marriage, this must be resolved, otherwise you will become even more bitter.
2006-10-31 23:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel my husband loves his computer more then me.I'm always last in his book but he's suppose to be first in mine. Sweetie I don't know what to tell you except to get you a life or talk to him about it and be stern.
2006-10-31 23:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by jjfabls69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's got hot personal trainer at gym or kind a moody from steroids or both.
2006-10-31 23:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excercise with him. I love working out with my husband.
2006-11-01 00:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excercise with him....that way you guys can get all hot and sweaty together..(nudge, nudge--wink, wink)...AND nothing like a shower for 2 when you're done!!! ;-) Ooo-Lah-Lah!!!
2006-10-31 23:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever think he is trying to look good for you? Exercise with him!!!!!
2006-10-31 23:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋