I am married. I love the man I married. But I just started my new job and I found a guy that is giving me way alot more attention then my husband is doing now. And as hard as it is to say but my husband and I's relationship and still going down hill. What should I do?????????????
2006-10-31 23:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by jjfabls69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your hands to yourself until you get a divorce. Your still married.>
2006-10-31 23:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the reason so many people are getting divorced nowadays. Giving up on the relationship WAY too fast. Marriage is not easy. It's something that you both have to work at. Talk to your husband about giving you more affection. Don't go wandering off like so many people do. Fight hard to keep your marriage going. Being inappropriate with someone else is only going to worsen your marital problems.
2006-11-01 07:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Is this guy looking at you as a conquest or a relationship after all wont it be nice if the office gossip is abuzz with the news that he is doing you , when you think that he is looking for a relationship .
2. Is it worth losing a partner over .
3. could it be that with the same amount of effort you are prepared to sink into this new guy , you might resurrect you lagging marriage.
seem like you are prepared to risk a lot for a little flirting at work.
2006-11-01 08:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, this other guy u r seeing is like a bubble gum . He so sweetie today and in few days time he won't b sweetie. Luv ur hubby as much as u can . U know @times u meet someone n u feel he is the best than the one u r with , but u will fooling urself.. It's one of those things that happens in lyf, U gotta be very careful my luv.. keep well
2006-11-01 07:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dont compareyour relationship to a man you just met at work. Your husband probably showed you as much attention when he first started liking you to. Didyou even think this way about your husband before you met htis guy, or is it a new thing.
2006-11-01 07:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is always hard you have to work on it to make it. also there are always going to be men that gives you attention. you are liking this new guy because it something new and exciting. so you know what you need to do right. start making things new and exciting with your husband..sit down and talk to him and let him know how you are feeling.and tell him lets start makin our relationship better. and take it from there.. before you cheat with this new guy ..try to work it out with your husband first...
2006-11-01 07:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by laydofluv25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for other men to react to a beautiful woman especially if he thinks he might have a chance with her.I wouldn't throw away a marriage over "what might be". True love isn't just roses, it's also friendship,hardship and commitment. If you don't like your marriage, leave because you want to, not because of the attention of another man.Stay Strong.
2006-11-01 07:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Punky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your husband take time to go out on dates with each other?
It seems to me that your interest level is decreasing, so he's either not showing you affection, respect or being a challenge (he's not a door mat, is he?).
Sounds to me like he needs a relationship coach, and you're already halfway out the door.
Man, this forum is depressing:)
2006-11-01 08:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself and your husband. marriage takes work and patience. i know what you mean, but keep your vows and don't give up. you will always meet a man that will treat you better or different than your husband, but it doesn't necessarily mean you should go for him or that he is better for you in the long run.
this stuff happens to both men and women all the time.
2006-11-01 08:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always nice to get a little extra attention i'd take it just as that.. your married and are commited..
perhaps you need to give your husband a little extra attention.. he'll appreciate it and show a little back..
2006-11-01 07:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋