I really need an advice badly,please?
I asked the same question before but nobody answered it why?
2006-10-31 22:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by rochelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everyone who getting marry feels the same way as you, you just feel excited as well as the same time you feel scare that your wedding day wouldn't be like the way you plan it, in the mean time do something to make you feel happy in a way, and why not tell your soon to be husband how you feel, he might feel the same way to.. best of all Congra on your wedding..^_^
2006-10-31 22:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there things that is or has gone on that makes you second guess yourself? If so, then maybe you need to take time to make sure that marrying this guy is what you want. Or it could be just stress and it will subside once the wedding day is over.
If more then one person is telling you not to marry -- I'd step back to look at what they are seeing that you aren't in this guy. Better to be safe then sorry.
2006-11-01 06:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rochelle .. cant eat cant sleep and cant think mmmm Sounds like your in love and nervous If its the wedding it self that has your life in turmoil then sweety its a big day but its not the end of all things your supposed to enjoy it after all its your day to become a wife and its not like you are going to jail if its not perfect ( I'm sure it will be fine just let the event come as it will ) I hope you will be a lovely bride and your new husband sees you in all your splendor .After all couples go through this every day and live to tell the story . smile be beautiful and beam on your day .
2006-11-01 06:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why you can't do these things. No reason for it. Are you having doubts? Then wait. I have always said that never in your whole life will you make a life-long decision like marriage. You don't even buy a car thinking it will last a lifetime! List the positives and the negatives...take your time...be in no hurry...it's too large a commitment...
2006-11-01 06:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite natural to feel excited on the occasion of marriage. I suppose you have never had pre-marital sex and this has multiplied your excitement.. Believe me try to feel relaxed... dont remain alone try to be with your best friends and keep yourself engaged in purchasing, moving out, planning and keep your mind engaged at the same time increase the fruit juice intake and sleep well this will make dramatic changes and freshness in you...
2006-11-01 06:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u re getting married against your will with a person u don't like yes, it is a prison. poor u. we, normal people, usually get married with a epople we love and can't live without. i got married with my man cos i couldn't live without him. and i always knew - if i don'¨t like smth i can always get divorsed. or just cheat. so i wasn't worried
2006-11-01 06:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're this terrified, don't do it. It'll save you a lot of heartache later. TRUST ME I KNOW. Let me add I thought it was wedding jitters too.
2006-11-01 06:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, be calm. Give it some time and it will sink in.
2006-11-01 06:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax... breathe...
2006-11-01 06:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by shelly_cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋