the words that its his heart and that it should stay between the two of us. He knows that you don't own a mobile earliar. Later he agrees to let you share it with your parents and his parents. But he keeps checking it regularly. And he keeps repeating that its his love and that when he is away this mobile will keep us together. He wouldn't let you have another one. What would you do girls?
2006-10-31 23:54:21 · 14 answers · asked by 28March2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I buy my own he said he wont reply to it nor he will call on it...and if I keep both..thats not agreeble to him as well
2006-11-01 00:11:32 · update #1
he is over possessive and materialistic inclined
2006-10-31 23:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Explorer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give Him His Mobile And Buy A New One You Know It Is A Gift But The Gift Don't Be Like That That's Not A Gift At All Buy Your Freedom
2006-11-01 08:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious_Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has control issues, I would ask him why you can't have your own mobile again he gives you a straight answer from him. If he trusts you he will give you one, but if he doesn't then I would start looking for the real reason. A marriage is based on trust not control.
2006-11-01 08:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Minot_1997 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of creepy. If he just started doing this after you two got married I would wonder what his true intentions were. Some guys turn at the drop of a hat after the wedding's over and done. Get your own phone and tell him he's freaking you out.
2006-11-01 08:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take out battery of the mobile and soil its terminals.you will feel the discomfort of being wit out a mobile but it will set you free .and trust me you will love the feeling. by the way mobiles are not that indispensable
2006-11-01 08:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by SJM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like the start of a controlling relationship !
i would watch out !
but he might be telling the truth i don't know the way he said all this to you ! â
2006-11-01 07:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hell no get your own mobile and when he ask why you got your own tell him because you need one for yourself ///you still can call him and he can still call you
2006-11-01 07:57:01 · answer #7 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think he is concerned that you may stray and it is a way for him to keep tabs on you at all times - ask him why he checks your phone....
I think he has trust issues
2006-11-01 07:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by schmushe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he insane.. you seems to have no freedom at all. even you are married, still you have your private life... anyways try to discuss it to him.. if he fails to understand your point.. then buy your own.. even not the expensive one, a cheap but in good condition will do.. atleast you provide it to your own..
2006-11-01 08:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by ems 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE HIM THE MOBILE BACK AND TELL HIM YOU FEEL THAT ALTHO YOU ARE MARRIED ITS LIKE STALKING YOU. BUY YOUR OWN MOBILE
2006-11-01 07:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say possessive? Does he own you or something?
2006-11-01 08:05:20 · answer #11 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋