Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

what are the signs? how do you know?

2006-11-01 07:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

If you know of one (just kidding, of course), of if you have ANY advice on how to go through a divorce, please let me know. I'm going through one right now and it's not easy as you all know.

But, if you had to do it over again, WHAT would you have done differently and WHY?

I need a light here people. Things are going downhill fast...

2006-11-01 07:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when it comes to anger, do you think before you speak? explain

2006-11-01 07:24:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 5 years broke up got back together several time except the last two times I met someone and I fell in love. It was too difficult keeping up w/ the relationship w/ this guy because of the fact that I was still married. I have tryed to work things out with my husband but I cant because I love the other guy I cant live without him. I have tryed but I cant because he is what my husband isnt. My husband is very imature and he is not in love with me I know because he has told me & I am not in love with him but we have two kids and a life together. The other guy is not father material neither is my husband but that is my childrens father. I dont know what to do. What would you do?

2006-11-01 07:19:31 · 23 answers · asked by pink 1

We have two beautiful little kids. My wife is a good woman. But she went through two years of being an unbearable nag, controlling, bossy, bad tempered that she now regrets. However, it is too late, I am not in love with her and spend most of every day wondering how to get myself out of the relationship. I don't want to hurt her, but there is no way out of it I think. I don't want to hurt the kids, but if i wait till they are older it will hurt them worse i am afraid. (they are 2 and 6 months). the longer i wait the harder it will be for my wife to meet another man. i feel i shoudl do this soon, but have not done it yet. she knows i've been miserable, but that i am working on it. maybe i should just plan on being unhappy myself to be there for her and the kids, but i think i will go crazy if i do.

2006-11-01 07:12:28 · 30 answers · asked by stbookus 1

To go to counseling. We have such a difficult time communicating, it always ends up in a fight. I am unhappy with our situation right now and just want it to get better. He refuses to try this, he says it doesn't work. I think it could help or at least couldn't hurt to try. How do I get him to try this out?

2006-11-01 07:11:13 · 16 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3

I've been with my man for almost 3 years and it has been a long hard road and he has hurt me alot but every time I come back, I do love him and believe he can change, He has a good heart and was brought up in a good family with good morals and things have gotten better, but he still lies to me. Most of the time he is lieing so he doesn hurt anyone, but a lie is still a lie. He has now, after I have left once again, face to face admitted he has a problem, is there help for us?

2006-11-01 07:09:39 · 11 answers · asked by littlebit02 1

Would you trust that he only looked or would you think the worst?

2006-11-01 07:09:03 · 26 answers · asked by Penguin Gal 6

I just saw my ex-husband. He came into the place where I work - as a customer- and I had to help him.....it was so weird. I could hardly even function.
We were together for 15 years- we have been apart for more than 3 years- but the pain is so deep- it feels as if it only happened yesterday.
I could see it in his face too- I think it still hurts him. We have both moved on and are in new (serious) relationships. But I have to be honest - I still love this man in ways I don't even understand - and it hurts so much!!!
AAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!
When does the hurting stop?!!! How do I let go???
Anyone else been in this situation that can offer any advice that might help ease this emotional torture?????

2006-11-01 07:05:03 · 18 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1

2006-11-01 06:58:34 · 21 answers · asked by magessa1 2

I have found a man that i fell in love with but after 2 years of chating and building a relationship ,he get in to trouble with the law and has been in jail for a year . i'm hoping it won't mess up our plans

2006-11-01 06:58:22 · 23 answers · asked by sherianne_29 2

I'm looking for advice about collecting child support from an ex in another state. It has pretty much been horrible. After 2 years the other state finally told him they were going to put him in jail if he didn't pay. Now after about 2 months he quit. My state says there is nothing they can do (stupid, cause the child support order is from here) they just send info request to the other state. The other state says they can't tell me anything it has to go through the other and then they can tell me. As you can see it is a total run around.. each one says they don't have an update!

Has anyone been through something like this? I really need some advice.

2006-11-01 06:58:20 · 5 answers · asked by rsf 3

tell my husband that I want him to f*** me not make love to me. There is a difference!!

2006-11-01 06:56:26 · 23 answers · asked by momof2 2

I call my husband maybe twice a month on his cell phone (only if important and I do it during his lunch break). He's in sales and works out of the home and office all day. He never returns my calls when he's on lunch or at a work function/party (after 5:00). I think this is rude, considering I rarely call him. What do you think?

2006-11-01 06:55:17 · 27 answers · asked by Lake Lover 6

her father is David P Noga. I am her half sister, and older than her. I am looking for her. When her mother remarried, stepdad adopted her and the last now name changed.... Don't know her new last name. She should be around 25 yrs old.

2006-11-01 06:53:46 · 1 answers · asked by Dani 1

I knock the controller out of her hand when we play Madden 2006?

2006-11-01 06:52:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please give me specific things you do and say to keep it happy.

2006-11-01 06:47:33 · 13 answers · asked by trueblue 2

my husband has done lots of bad things in our marriage (lieing, quiting his jobs without discussing it first with me, holding a secret crush with some woman i don't even know, spending our money on stupid things etc...) all this hurt me but not as much as i thought it would....i asked for a divorce but he fights me on it...so now i just don't do anything i don't cook for him or clean or his laundry or dishes, i just refuse to act like a wife....i talk to other men, i just think and worry about myself and i'm only nice when i want something from him.....he still won't give me a divorce so now i'm depressed lying in bed all the time......without a job or nothing.......i don't trust him at all....any advice

2006-11-01 06:47:17 · 20 answers · asked by non-curious 2

2006-11-01 06:44:42 · 9 answers · asked by zEEs 1

married couples that I know aren't as happy as they thought they would be. I am almost thankful that I am single and not unhappily married like they are. Are you happy in your marriage?

2006-11-01 06:43:07 · 62 answers · asked by lily b 2

He can be controlive and I like privacy.

2006-11-01 06:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by Crissy P 1

He is loving , caring but so hesitatnt to talk sex and forget about making love....
Why sex is a taboo at least with one u got married to??
I get migraines when i am starved of any affection/sex from him. What do i do?? Sex part with him is just missing and he is not cheating on me. He is a great gut but so introvert... What do i do ? Should i forget the sex part in my life???

2006-11-01 06:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by nisha 1

What really makes your juices flow?

2006-11-01 06:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anointed 2

ex is asking for joint custody of our son, 12, and son is not happy there..

2006-11-01 06:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by cndnstyle 2

2006-11-01 06:36:30 · 11 answers · asked by olin1963 6

I appreciate the responses from those of you who READ my WHOLE post.
I understand alot of you say leave if the trust isn't right: Well I have been with this man for 10 years and we have 6 children. Ages 9-2. It is kind of just hard to say "ohh, well you are untrustworthy so I am going to divorce you". This is no easy boyfriend break up matter. I have asked him to go into counseling (so has his mother) but he refuses saying our "relationship" is perfect. I can not make him. Yes, for all of you....we did agree together that he would not look at porno anymore. He said" I would not want you to look at it behind my back and I will not do it either it is wrong". Hey it is great that some of you have "open relationships". HOWEVER not everyone shares your views. I know alot of couples who both agree that somethings are not healthy for marriages like (strip clubs). I do not freak out I just ask. The only reason I go upset last night is because he went behind my back.

2006-11-01 06:35:12 · 15 answers · asked by amberrenae1979@sbcglobal.net 2

just be honest

2006-11-01 06:21:29 · 14 answers · asked by jay s 1

someone who is sensitive then find one but turn around and say they are boring and too sensitive even though they treat them with more respect than anyone they have known?

2006-11-01 06:20:27 · 40 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

My son's soccer coach wanted to introduce me to his nephew who was going through a nasty divorce! We hit it off and continued to see one another for about 4 months on and off. My Divorce wasn't going to be final until August although my ex wasn't living at home he moved out! His wasn''t final either. SO needless to say I have3kids trying to work jobs , move etc . My life was a little crazy still going through ups and downs! didn't havea whole l ot of extra time on my hands,he wanted alot of my time which was o.k. but I stillhave responsibilites to my kids they come first I had to get them through this first before I bring another man into their lives well I went to court on august 1st my divorce was final and I didn't hear from the nephew for 2 weeks He ended up going back with his wife said I didn't have time for himI just asked him to be patient! HIs situation was worse than mine why would he do that?? I don't understand now he wants to get back together and dump her

2006-11-01 06:17:18 · 18 answers · asked by sassy 2

And there was some messages sent to some women from his acct. One of the messages was sent to his ex girlfriend and the others were sent just to random women saying that they were hot and stuff. I asked him if he did these things and he said no, that someone must of set up an account in his name. But for some reason i just dont belive that.Do you think i sould be concerned or do you think he is telling the truth?

2006-11-01 06:16:31 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous