Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

divorce is pending can this person stop the divorce proceedings in pennsylvania and file a new divorce in maryland ( this person is in in the military)

2006-11-01 08:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by junetwin2 2

We have been living in the same house in 'separation' for over 2 years. Health and money issues have kept us from fixing our house and selling it and moving on. It is no longer a healthy environment for my kids or myself and I need to find the best way to move out without completely distrupting their lives. We can't afford for one of us to live in the house and the other in an apartment. We have medical bills and a child in college, plus I've just started back to work after 11 years. I fear if I don't get out, I never will and what kind of environment is that for my children? Anyone have any suggestions besides to just leave? It's not that simple. I'm trying to get my house in order to put on the market, but that's costly, too. I would like to ask him to leave.

2006-11-01 08:29:10 · 4 answers · asked by J N 1

2006-11-01 08:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Patrick P 1

I dont feel comfortable having my daughter around my brother-in-law. When my husband & I want to go out, he usually suggests that we have his brother watch her & I just dont feel right about it, I dont know why but I get very nervous & feel terrified that he might do something inappropriate. I have yet to give my husband the real reason why I dont want her there. My daughter is 4, & my brother in law is a single man; 31 yrs old. I dont feel this way about any other man in her life. What should I do about this?

2006-11-01 08:25:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife is so sensitive and critical on everything I say. We fought till 4:30 am last night because she says that I dont love her like I use to. I had to explain that people change and we are not young goo goo eyed kids exploreing ourselves. We have responcibilities and kids to take care of. Its not like I neglect her. We go out on dates every weekend and we do things constantly with the kids. She has breaks during the day (gym, shopping,computer surfing time, etc..) I do my best to confort her in her needs but she does nothing for me. If I do the slightest thing wrong, she secretly punishes me. She has no money worries and has everything she needs and 75% of everything she wants. I even wash clothes and dishes for her besides doing my man chores and work full time to support everything we have. I am very confussed about everything. Why does she stay so pissed all the time and why does she constantly ***** about everything that is not our problems. I am sick of it....She acts 18 years old

2006-11-01 08:24:30 · 28 answers · asked by aubreytaegan 2

2006-11-01 08:21:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 21 years. we were high school sweethearts.Now this man is drving me nuts.How do you deal with irratating men?

2006-11-01 08:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by WITCHY WOMAN 1

or can I refer to 'him' as my ex husband. We will be divorced eventually!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 08:18:32 · 30 answers · asked by GalaxyGirl 2

2006-11-01 08:17:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jalal 1

Hubby and I were at a bar last night but ended it on a bad note. Need some advice. Hubby and I were having a good time talking to our friends when the couple behind him starts going off about him rubbing up against the woman standing behind him. (We'd been in that spot for hours and the bar was extremely crowded.) My husband was scolded by this guy, turned around and said to me, "He's the boss." I couldn't believe these jerks were treating the hubby like they were, and I gave them a piece of my mind. (No, not typical behavior but I'd had some to drink and couldn't stand idly by as they mistreated the hubby.) Later turned out they were friends of one of the guests of our party, and the girl (the instigator and potty mouth) acted like an innocent bystander. I set the record straight, and the hubby told me off because of it in front of everyone. I wasn't having any fun at that point and told him I wanted to leave. He's still upset over it. Please advise.

2006-11-01 08:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 08:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by hhii j 1

It seems love making is hard because i am never in the mood...any advice? we have been married 10 months we are 21.. and both virgins.. when we got married..

2006-11-01 08:07:32 · 14 answers · asked by chosen_isaiah61 3

When we first started dating, D.H. and I discussed our thoughts on marriage and weddings. Until I received the revelation that he was my husband I did not believe in marriage. Marriage, to me is a misconception. I did not want to be married to anyone. I wanted a commitment. My best friend at the time told me that I was crazy, “marriage is a commitment, Shani.” But I still had to beg to differ. It is sad to say that we live in a society where people can remember exactly how much they spent on their wedding dresses, what type of cake they ate, what their bridesmaids wore, but they can not tell you their wedding vows.
Marriage is about relationship. The key to making it work is communication. People grow and change everyday, even when they don’t see it, and if you are constantly working on your relationship, you will get lost and one of you will have grown in one direction and the other person in the other direction. Am I wrong?

2006-11-01 08:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by Shanigirl 4

ive got cold and was cold in bed last night but my wife says i was hot in bed, was she having a laugh at my expense.

2006-11-01 08:02:46 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

Would make love outside but kinda seculded just for the thrill of it to add excitement .

2006-11-01 07:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by chosen_isaiah61 3

My husband is pretty shy and introverted, however, he works a job that he has to work with clients all day long. And it is a commission job so he gets paid more, the better he does. Anyway, because of this, he comes home at night and is completely drained. Because of this his sex drive isn't what it was in college, I am hoping someone can give me some advice on how I can get him to relax a little when he gets home so maybe I can get that going again!!! Any advice welcome!

2006-11-01 07:58:31 · 9 answers · asked by Sandy 3

he's always trying to get me to like what he likes sexually because he says he cant enjoy these things if I do them if I dont like them too. But I just don't. I love him but he is always hurting me, how can I handle this situation aside from counseling? He has hurt me plenty of times and I feel like I resent him for everything even though I love him. I cant even talk to him about anything that Im feeling if its negative because he over reacts or acts like I shouldnt feel that way. I dont want to leave but I feel like Im loosing myself and that I have no one I can talk to, ofcourse Id rather talk to him and have told him how I have felt numerous times, but I just stopped talking about my feelings because I dont want to piss him off or make him angry at me. And yes I know I need to grow some balls and stand up to him but Im more of a peace maker. We used to fight continuously for three years and I havent actually tried in three years because I would rather avoid all the crying and etc

2006-11-01 07:56:21 · 10 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2

I am a 37 year old divorced male...but I have a good job. I am told by a lot of people that I look younger. But for some reason it seems the world has ended for me. It has only been 10 months since she left me for the single life and now has settled down with someone else. I feel lost and alone when I dont have the kids. I want to meet someone but just dont know how anymore. I guess I need words of encouragement more than anything. Any way divorce sucks and if anyone is contemplating divorcing and you once loved that person try like hell to fix whatever it is...especially if you have kids.

2006-11-01 07:50:40 · 18 answers · asked by jpuszkar 1

2006-11-01 07:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Adim N 1

I parked in the grocery store parking lot and gave my wife 80 dollars in cash to get some groceries. Basically, I was dropping her off and then I was going to go to the electronics store to check out some HDTV's while she was shopping. She had a list of things to get and when she got out she asked if I wouldn't mind if she bought a 2 liter Sprite. I told her, "Not today sweetheart". Then she asked why and I told her that I wanted her on a diet so she could continue to be my barbie girl (thin). Anyways, I had let her have a Sprite two weeks before. She started pleading and saying "please" and I said "no sweetie" (lovingly). Then she said "you never let me do anything fun". And I told her that wasn't true and she needed to stop creating a scene. She then stuck her tongue out at me. I know she was playing but that was it. i got out of the car, put her over the hood and spanked her. She embarassed me so I thought that might teach her how it feels, you know?

2006-11-01 07:43:45 · 43 answers · asked by Lucky L 1

2006-11-01 07:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by Conrad D 1

after many years without holding any meaningful job for any meaningful amount of time?

I have 2 and a half years of college under my belt but I'm still unsure of that will help me (if any) with getting a job that will be good enough for me to support my child.

Any thoughts on this matter?

2006-11-01 07:42:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there are two sisters who i like, those two sisters also like me. however, if i ever marry one of them, then the other sister will be angry and jelour at her sister.

should i leave them in peace so they remain good sisters, should i just go look for someone else?

2006-11-01 07:40:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you get a divorce. Can one of the names be taken off the contract???

2006-11-01 07:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by Shorty06 3

I have a 9 month old daughter. Well this is a little personal, but every since I had my baby I haven't had much of a sex drive... It's not that I don't find my husband attractive or anything, but I do every once in while put the first moves, but most of the time he makes me mad, b/c he gives me grief about it and hounds me about it.. We used to have sex all the time and had a great sex life and he throws that in my face.. Please give me some suggestions on why you think my sex drive is dissappearing!!!

2006-11-01 07:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant help but wonder if its to soon for me to be in love again. I am not even completely divorced yet, in the process, but not complete yet. I wasnt even looking for a relationship when I met the guy I am with now it just happened. I fell head over heals for this guy the moment I saw him. Does this mean I never really loved my ex-husband? I just dont know. I am really confused, but I do know when I am in love, it doesnt happen everyday. So tell me what you think. Is it too soon to be in love again?

2006-11-01 07:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by bryfillicetti 1

friends came over last night.She knew my wife was working and forced me to have sex with her, She told me that I might as well cuz she's going to tell my wife I did her anyways. They have been best friends forever so I feared that my wife would beieve her over me. So I had sex with her. I feel so unclean now and can't face my wife what should I do ?

2006-11-01 07:33:21 · 23 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

eating all the candy that their kids got last night for Halloween? Their not going to be happy with me when they get in from school. HaHa!

2006-11-01 07:31:59 · 23 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

2006-11-01 07:31:29 · 24 answers · asked by ***MAF*** 2

my ex bf married someone else after our seven years relationship,he said he was forced because the woman made him believe that she was pregnant(the truth came after a few months).I then married his best friend.For almost seven years together,I could say that with my husband,I am completely happy,we have a son,we are compatible and we love each other,everything goes smoothly,I would never wish for another man in my life.I think my husband is the best.BUT..why do I keep on thingking about my ex bf?I got some chance to see and talk to him(he is separated from his wife),I know and I feel that I am not inlove with him anymore..although I want to maintain civil relationship between us.I feel guilty towards my husband everytime that my ex bf enters my mind

2006-11-01 07:31:09 · 18 answers · asked by amie_esprit 2