2006-11-01 08:25:47 · 12 answers · asked by Patrick P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I suggest divorce.
2006-11-01 08:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate with him, ask him to go to therapy with you,if he refuses than you must assume he isn't interested in reconciliation, and at that point see an attorney, get a support system of trusted friends, family or people from your church.it takes tieme to get over a hurt, seems like when this happens we are in a daze, first denying it, than getting mad, than we enter into this depression, sometimes directed at ourselves. but this was a choice your husband made, has nothing to do with your self worth. it has more to do with his thinking, and decisions.i personally would move on if he refused to go to therapy, also if he isn't remorseful for this, or refuses to take responsibility, i would say there was no where to go with the marriage, and it would be time to get a divorce for your own sanity. no one deserves this from your spouse. just remember u deserve better,and if he is unwilling to stop what he's doing than you have to get out of it so u can feel better.
2006-11-01 20:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get a lawyer.
2. Get a divorce
3. GET AN AIDS TEST
Don't put up with this sh*t for another minute. You are worth so much more. Remember the part of the marriage vows that says: "Honor" and "respect"? He has done neither. Kick him to the curb - yesterday.
2006-11-01 17:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by happy heathen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to bring her home so you can have a threesome and SHOW him who is the better woman!!! You will drive him wild and over the edge and he will worship the ground you walk on.
2006-11-01 17:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out, change the locks, and file for divorce
2006-11-01 16:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him packing.
2006-11-01 16:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Courtlyn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when she can move in. I could really use the help!
2006-11-01 16:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel devastated, but pluck up my courage and kick his *** out of my life
2006-11-01 16:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by snowdrop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce. obviously he doe s not care for you
2006-11-01 16:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack his clothes and get rid of him . you are worth more than that
2006-11-01 16:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋