friends came over last night.She knew my wife was working and forced me to have sex with her, She told me that I might as well cuz she's going to tell my wife I did her anyways. They have been best friends forever so I feared that my wife would beieve her over me. So I had sex with her. I feel so unclean now and can't face my wife what should I do ?
2006-11-01 07:33:21 · 23 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wish people would stop saying "anyways". It's "anyway".
2006-11-01 07:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a stupid excuse. And the reason you didn't leave the house and go to your wife's work was?.....
If your wife would believe her "friend's" lie then your marriage is already in trouble.
I would never believe anyone over my husband. Her friend must have been putting out signals to you for a while before she made advances on you. Obviously you were receptive.
This is a perfect example of the necessity to keep marital relationships private. You shouldn't have let her in the house. Now you gotta pay the piper.
2006-11-01 07:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were truly forced to have sex, then its rape...if thats the true case, then you need to press charges. If not, then you need to get real with your wife and although it'll be tough... the sooner you come clean, the less likely a chance this other woman will have of making things worse. and it could get very worse! she could tell your wife anyway. As much as it is gonna hurt, she'd rather hear it from you now, not her later! You did it, own it, and take the consequences!
2006-11-01 07:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by kookndene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro i dont think any woman in the world that has a brain is going to believe that she forced you to have sex with her. YOU messed up. You should have called your wife and told her that her friend was their and wondered if she would like to talk to her. Her cover would have been blown in stead of you getting a blown. Your gona have trouble and you brought it on yourself. Did she give you Viagra and hypnotize you into bed. No why did you sleep with her? Cause you wanted to. Deal with the facts like a man own up to it and brace your self.
2006-11-01 07:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by sucker4chicks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to figure out how to face yourself. Give me a break, you were forced. Your wife would believe her friend over you? Why would that be....
I think your wife needs to get the hell away from you and her so called friend.
2006-11-01 07:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. first.. go get a lawyer, sign away everything you own to her. Tell her to get herself checked out with the doc in case you and her friend have something to share...eww. You should feel unclean and you also should get some couselling for that whimpy attitude for not just saying No..
2006-11-01 07:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparantly the situation is not clear. As a women (friends of your wife) cant force you to have sex with her. If that has happened then the scanerio seems opposite.
2006-11-01 07:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me break bro??? She forced you? You should have called the cops and at least started a paper trail your wife would have beleived you. You wanted it too. Now your screwed because she will find out and dump you because it did happen and she will not believe that you were forced.
2006-11-01 07:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by jsmo555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out how some woman forced your pecker hard and had sex with you. Then make up some story maybe the wife will believe.
2006-11-01 07:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you feel unclean the first thing you should do is take a shower? Usually works for me!
2006-11-01 07:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up. It's not possible for you to have a wife. Let alone your wifes friend actually wanting you.
2006-11-01 07:35:07 · answer #11 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋