Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

My wife's mom is in the hospital with what the medicos think is a brain tumour.

Needless to say she's been feeling pretty sad lately. so i slapped a bunch of Weird Al songs on a CD and played it after supper while she was making lunches and I was washing the dishes. We laughed our @asses off.

I"d like to hear what others have done.

2006-11-01 12:51:35 · 9 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

(man married 24 yrs leaves family for 21 yr old he has no money does he really love her)......the expanding question is..........he says to anyone willing to listen that he has felt dead for 8 yrs yet this is news to the wife who thought all was ok she had always kept the line of communication open...i mean after 24 yrs married you have your shares of ups and downs but she never thought is was a bad as he is tellin ppl and when they talk now he is very nasty and short like shes the bad one.anyone have any advice......

2006-11-01 12:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he and my daughter split up while they lived in my house. he says this is his residence and he can come and go as he pleases.

2006-11-01 12:48:44 · 15 answers · asked by daddy confused 1

my husabnd has not really been involved in my pregnancy as much as i wished he would is there a way to get him to read a baby book or something so he knows what the hell is going on, he didnt want to but i am sure there are ways to convince a man do read a book about pregnancy or babys right

2006-11-01 12:46:58 · 21 answers · asked by beachgirl3360 1

how many boyfriends did you have before you got married? how many of you married the first or second one? how did you know that he was the one? i mean if he's the first you don't really know what else is out there? any regrets?

2006-11-01 12:43:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband accidentally spilled some red wine on the carpet on Monday and I tried my best to get the stain to come out but all I had was soap, water, and a generic carpet cleaner that didn't work good at all :( He gives me a report card on various wifely duties and if I get all A's I get 20 "good girl points" but if I get any F's on one of them I lose 10 :( Before today I had 30 good girl points but now I have 20. If I had of got all A's I would have had 50 points and my husband would have taken me and baby to the zoo this weekend. I had A's in every other category so I pleaded with him to give me a second chance. He said he will give me to Friday evening to remove the stain. I could sure use a breather and would love to see the animals and I'm sure baby would enjoy the fresh air and a long ride in the stroller :) Please help!! :) What is the best carpet cleaner for red wine? Thanks for all you help girls!!

2006-11-01 12:33:21 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

The ex earns 3X's what I do, he only pays $34.00 a week total. We have 2 kids together. I can't afford a lawyer. What recourse do I have?

2006-11-01 12:31:38 · 12 answers · asked by sexmagnet 6

a married man 24 yrs leaves his family for a 21 yr old he is 42 no money.............can he love this girl its only been 6 months

2006-11-01 12:31:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

In traditional Chinese culture, it's very unethical to cohabit with a man or have sex before marriage. But now more and more young people who leave their hometown and working in big city like Shanghai,Peking, choose cohabitation. But not all of them tell their parents the truth. They know their parents still have old ethnic standard and will be angry with the truth.
Actually parents of the boys don't care so much than girls.
What's that about in your country? Especailly in Europe and USA.
Is cohabitation really very common? Is parents really don't care your daughter cohabit with boy? Is that depand on their age? What if the girl is 20 years old.
I'm 24 years old,and cohabit with my bf for more than a year, but my parents don't know that.

2006-11-01 12:28:38 · 6 answers · asked by dreamoppet 1

Me and my gf have been together for about 4 1/2 years. we're 21 now. is it the right time to propose to her or should i wait a little while?

2006-11-01 12:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by champ22 2

me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a year the 18 of this month will be a year and i love him to death and he treats me so good. He would do anything for me and i just feel like his the one i mean his all i see in my furture and even my parents think were going to get married and his parents too he such a sweet heart but some times he can get a little mean i get mad to that just a part of life but after he gets mad at me or something he always says sorry and i do to because sometimes its kinda both our faults sometimes and sometimes its mine or his but his my honey his my teddy bear thats what i call him cause i love to hug and never let him go his not fat or nothing i mean his skinny as a stick , i just love to hug him!!!and everyone thinks were going to get married i hope so , I love him so much!!!

2006-11-01 12:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by Dipstick 1

He is a liar and a cheater but still wants to live with me, I have caught him more times than one with other women.

2006-11-01 12:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by funnyface 1

I love him to death I love everything about him he completes me but his jealousy sometimes pisses me off like he doesnt trust me
Mind you I just had our 1st baby 2 months ago What should I do?

2006-11-01 12:20:14 · 22 answers · asked by Tasha 2

2006-11-01 12:17:47 · 24 answers · asked by missktbop 2

because i don't want to go out to the clubs anymore. i will go every once and a while but not every weekend they are all single. I just don't think a married woman with 3 children should be hanging out like that. I'm tripping or what?

2006-11-01 12:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by smithbooty26 1

I have the hardest even showing my husband I want sex. However, I have no problems being affectionate with him. What gives? What is your best move??

2006-11-01 12:05:23 · 17 answers · asked by ba374 2

2006-11-01 12:03:17 · 25 answers · asked by sekhtet 3

My husband asked me to share my deepest and most secret sexual fantasy. He told me his (it was disgusting!!), so I told him mine was to have a romantic/erotic encounter with a gorgeous 14yo boy with dark hair and eyes who looks a bit like actor Skandar Keynes.

He found this hilarious, and has been laughing about it ever since. He keeps making vulgar jokes about going to the local high school to get a date, and says Skandar is a weird looking kid, and if I'm going to lust after boys 20yrs younger, could I at least pick one that isn't an ugmo?

The trouble is when he thinks something is funny, he generally likes to share the joke with others, and now I'm scared he is going to tell other people about it.

How can I make him shut up about it, and how do I get over feeling betrayed by him, because at the moment I feel extremely hurt and angry with him.

2006-11-01 11:51:33 · 24 answers · asked by Jadis, Queen of Narnia 2

I recently married and am now experiencing the drama my new family so carefully hide before I married. My wife is the type of person who bites her tongue when a particular aunt expressess her unwated opinion. Her aunt is very hard headed and often hurts the feelings of other family members due to her beliefs. The petty arguments/ rumors that she starts finally involved me and im not the type of person to avoid speaking up. My wife as well as I do not want a fight with this aunt but do want to express our (My) feelings to hopefully show her aunt the hurt she inflicts. Is this possible and how?

2006-11-01 11:40:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married one year and my wife decided she didn't want to be married anymore out of the blue. Anyone know how much alimony I need to pay her and for how long? We are trying not to get lawyers involved. There are no kids involved and both her and I work. I made 80k /yr last year and she made 40k. Thanks in advance!!

2006-11-01 11:14:03 · 26 answers · asked by fedup 1

I have heard from different people about there take on marriage. Some say its "awesome" others say it sucks. What is your thoughts on it???

2006-11-01 11:11:54 · 50 answers · asked by croftman86 2

We are married for 12 years never in my life had orgasm with him though I love him he cant stay erect long & doesnt use hand right place right time. What do you think I should do? I am not at all cold I am so romantica & I love sex. He has high blood pressure & takes medication. Please please help as soon as possible I am going insane.

2006-11-01 11:09:18 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

The Loyality of your wife or your best friend

2006-11-01 11:08:14 · 35 answers · asked by colin050659 6

I am recently seperated from my husband of 12 years, It was a bad relationship so I am now truly happy. We usually went to my moms for Thanksgiving and Christmas, but it wasnt a big deal if we didnt go there. It was more of a come if you want, there were no set plans. Now I am living with my boyfriend and he is seperated too, actually I left my husband the same day he and his wife split up. I know what you are thinking, but Is wasnt planned and we were all Swingers and all of us had problems. His wife was in love with another man, and him and I were in love with each other. Ok back to the question, His mom and dad are going to his x wifes parents house for Thanksgiving and Christmas. We were invited to go also, but I just think that that is going to be so akward. I am going to feel like such an intruder, and I dont really want to go to my familys either. Its been 7 months since the split ups, and his x has been a lot cooler to me lately. Any Ideas?

2006-11-01 11:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by mysticmoons2002 2

when he isn't drinking he is wonderful,very dependable,wonderful provider,very affectionate,caring and sweet..when he is drinking and has had 7 beers or more he starts being an ***..he says the most horrible things to me,and has even cheated on me twice that i know of and has blamed both occassions on being too intoxicated..he has tried quiting,and does well but then gets to thinking because he can quit for several months at a time he has no problem if he can quit when he wants and then he starts drinking a little at a time,,1 or 2 here and there,,then a few more gradually until he is drinking at least a 6 pk every night.and it never fails as soon as it reaches the every night mark he starts getting very short and nasty with me,he doesn't care what he does or says when he is like this...i have left twice but keep coming back...am i stupid for staying and hoping that he will seek real help for his obvious problem?i love him,,,but is my love blind and setting me up for more disapointment

2006-11-01 11:03:35 · 64 answers · asked by whome? 1

My ex-husband's girlfriend obviously owes a lot of people money because I get calls for her all the time. She has never lived in my house or state even and my number is unpublished. She doesn't have it. Never has. Never will. I do not share a last name with my ex-husband. However, someone mentioned that they could be using something called skip tracing where they search for anyone that might have been associated with her somehow.. I don't understand it, but I want the collectors to stop calling my house. I don't owe anyone money, yet I have to deal with the calls all the time. I tell them she doesn't live here and they act like they don't believe me. One even got rude about it and implied that I was her and that I was lying to get him to leave me alone.. what can I do? I've told them I can't get a message to her because I have a no-contact order against her and my ex and they keep harrassing me because they say they need to "make contact."

2006-11-01 11:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6

my best friend is engaged. she is 21 and he is 19
she has a job he cant keep one. he tries to controll her and she allows him. when i ask her if she loves him enough to marry him she hesitates to answer. and she is constantly asking if she should marry him. so should she?

2006-11-01 10:58:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is VERY selfish when it comes to giving it up. Please advise.

2006-11-01 10:55:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

...................What is the meaning of WIFE !

2006-11-01 10:48:11 · 18 answers · asked by cliff4sally 1

everyday at work (we work in family bizness) this happens:

i think he is being demeaning, bossy, harsh etc, so i get upset , he is always criticizing me for every little mistake, he pushes me aside phisically when he needs to pass by. he snaps him finger to get my attention as he would to a dog.but since he is the boss no one criticizes him. his excuse is iam deaf (i am partially ) and lazy(igrewup ineurope,he is buzy nyc). i hate this. please what should i do. i always losein argument.

2006-11-01 10:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by bella2007 1