I love him to death I love everything about him he completes me but his jealousy sometimes pisses me off like he doesnt trust me
Mind you I just had our 1st baby 2 months ago What should I do?
2006-11-01 12:20:14 · 22 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
An addition I just returned to work and see him on my lunch hour and now he thinks his boss is trying to act flirty with me...........
2006-11-01 12:38:46 · update #1
just reassure him......he loves you alot...your not pregnant anymore..so id say he wasnt jealous while you were ...get the picture?we act stupid sometimes....or alot of the time....let him know why you had his child &what it means to you. that your a family now....that nothing can ever take you away from him....your family. to trust & believe in you & your words ...until given a reason not to trust.
2006-11-01 12:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate, perhaps get counseling. try talking to each other first. hopefully he can tell you why he is jealous. something in his life experiences has made him insecure. Think also.....was he always this way and it was not expressed or did it happen after marriage? Fine line when it comes to emotions, alot to recall. Sharing that with each other may be helpful or at least a good start to understanding the why of jealousy. Sounds like you really love him, because you said he "completes" you. that is a nice compliment for your husband. i believe this is some thing that can be resolved once the chips are truly on the table.
2006-11-01 20:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by justrying2makit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling stress and strain right now is very natural in a marriage. Becoming parents is always a challenge. His jealousy may emerge as his way of trying to "control" things at a time when he is feeling overwhelmed. I strongly urge you to go together to get support from a good counselor. Remember: you don't have to go to talk to an experienced and objective person who wants to help just because you are in trouble...go in the same way you would always get your car tuned up. You keep a good relationship[ running by paying attention to it. You both are good people. Your both deserve this chance to get some support when you could use it to balance a very difficult and demanding life together. You will all feel better soon. I promise.
2006-11-01 20:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him his jealousy is becoming a problem for you. A relationship should be based on trust. Believe me I know or should I say knew how it was being in a relationship with a jealous husband. It drove me crazy and also drove me away from him. Try to talk to him and work it out. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-01 20:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Darcee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your position.....since you love your man..you should try to talk to him about his feelings...ask him what you should do to increase your trust in me..sometimes you may not be doing something wrong and he probably whould think bad...i guess thats just the way he is..and also make him understand how you feel..and also you guys can spend alot of time together with your new baby..and let him know that you love him and your going to be there for him... good luck and congrats on your new baby
2006-11-01 20:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mololina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeaslousy is insecurity. Talk to your husband and let him know he's the only one and you love him and to stop this outragerous jealousy. If not seek counseling for the two of you at once before it gets out of hand. You can go alone or without him.
2006-11-01 20:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, I just let my husband have his moment & sit back & prove him wrong all the time. He is not as bad as he was a few years ago. I truly do love him & I know he loves me he has his own insecurties to deal with that makes him jealous. If your husband loves you he will stop.
2006-11-01 20:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he jealous? About what? If youre home taking care of your baby...what is he jealous about. Figure that out. Ask him. Why are you jealous? Seems a reasonable question to ask. Then ask what on earth could you possibly do to to help him with this insecurity.
Then ask what 'he' can do to not be so jealous.
Good luck. Peace.
2006-11-01 20:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reassure him of your love for him. your new little one maybe getting more attention than him. Its hard for some men to take a back seat, even to his child. he has had you to himself and now he has to share you. be understanding of his feeling ask why he is doing what he is doing with out critizing him ask as many questions as you can, he may just need some time for the 2 of you and that is ok, take that time to spend with just him as often as you can. one day that baby will leave the nest and you 2 will be alone again.
2006-11-01 20:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man....he's got some serious issuses! My x husband was that way, i couldnt even go to the store! I couldnt have friends, i couldnt do anything! (notice i said "x")
Tell him to cut it out or your filing for divorce, even if you dont mean it, he doenst have to know that. YOu need to scare him just a little, just enough that he will realize what a good thing he has, and what he is gonna mess up if he doesnt stop it!
2006-11-02 08:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋