everyday at work (we work in family bizness) this happens:
i think he is being demeaning, bossy, harsh etc, so i get upset , he is always criticizing me for every little mistake, he pushes me aside phisically when he needs to pass by. he snaps him finger to get my attention as he would to a dog.but since he is the boss no one criticizes him. his excuse is iam deaf (i am partially ) and lazy(igrewup ineurope,he is buzy nyc). i hate this. please what should i do. i always losein argument.
2006-11-01 10:44:10 · 11 answers · asked by bella2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way to get this guy's goat would be not to react to him at all. Look him in the eye, listen to him and do not show a flicker of response. Do not respond to the finger snapping and try to avoid getting in the position where he can physically push you aside. He really needs some help and the behavior is abusive. Is there a crisis center you can call? They would be able to give you very specific actions to take. Take a day off of work and do some research. Hang in there.
2006-11-01 10:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of behavior towards you would be intolerable if you were just working for any other company so why do you put up with it from your relatives?
If you can't tell them the truth then tell them that you want to do something more in line with your training, or talents, or education. Whichever is right for you. But find a way to get a job somewhere else. Whoever this guy is, he's a real jerk.
2006-11-01 18:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family business or not, i certainly wouldnt be treated as a second class citizen. There are other jobs
2006-11-01 19:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this your husband or just a boss. eighter way , don't put up with this. there are more jobs out there. you should not be treated like this at all in a work place. god help you , if your boss is your b/f or husband!
2006-11-01 18:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who ever it is you just dont put up with it if it's your boss there are other jobs out there and if it's you husband or someone your dating then just tell him that you cant take it no more and just walk away.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 18:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This behavior is unacceptable. He obviously has no respect for you. I would tell him that he needs to show more respect or I'm outta here.
2006-11-01 19:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by marelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both should talk to a mediator. family counciling, is some times cheap though employers. and is usually able to be submitted through insurance.
2006-11-01 19:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is a family business, who owns it? if no one will listen to you find another job. no one i mean no one should be treated like they are dogs. stay out of his way and ignore him. good luck.
2006-11-01 19:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one should put up with this. go find a new job.
2006-11-01 18:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find at job where you are treated with respect.
2006-11-01 18:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by bmoline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋