I have the hardest even showing my husband I want sex. However, I have no problems being affectionate with him. What gives? What is your best move??
2006-11-01 12:05:23 · 17 answers · asked by ba374 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here's a very subtle approach that has been proven to work.
Grab him below the belt buckle, look him in the eyes for 5 seconds and say "f*ck me ................now !
2006-11-01 12:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Use another Nickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda have the same problem but with our limited time I find I almost have to just ask. I'll say in a kidding way, well, do you have enough energy left for sex tonight or should I just go on to bed and not shower and laugh. He always says sure I do. so, then I do the bath thing or change the sheets, with his help and lite a candle, whatever. Sometimes it just has to be said or asked because of time and energy today we are all so busy. Others I've heard are make a deal that when you or he turns over an object....maybe a vase or an object on a table or anything that's out where you walk by it daily...theat means you'd like to do it and that might work. It is kinda hard....since you want to be prepared! Maybe write a little love note, How about it, want some tonight? Let him answer before the day ends...yes or no blocks to check? could work ok.
2006-11-01 12:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem....and I want it every night. I don't really like making the first move, its just not like me. I have been more aggressive lately, I do things like start with affection and make my way down south and get him horned up. Another thing that I like to do is start sexual conversations on the phone throughout the course of the day, this lets him know that I am feeling frisky. If I really want to get him going quickly I start nibbling and sucking on the back of his neck and slowly exhale in his ear, it drives him nuts. Good luck
2006-11-01 12:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by mysticmoons2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually i don't have this problem... if i touch my fiance' he is aroused! I have the opposite problem... touching, cuddling can i get that w/out the SEX? prob. not then again after 4 yrs. does it really matter?
I would say a nice piece of lingerie, bubble bath... Wanna join? u know what I'm getting at use ur female persuasion!
2006-11-01 12:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no BEST move. most men think, any move will do. what did you do before you were married, try that. Naked always does the trick for me. Do any thing in the nude, cook, clean, watch TV, if that doesn't give him the hint, take him to the eye doctor he may need his eyes checked.
2006-11-01 12:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just work up to it slowly.... my hubby and I tend to tease each other all day..via email..or on the phone... then set the evening out...whilst watching tv or eating dinner make some signals....men usually catch on pretty quickly!!
2006-11-01 12:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him that look....take his hand, and lead him into the bedroom. Note: This works best if you have absolutely nothing but a smile on.
2006-11-01 12:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try role playing. Just pretend you are a sexy seductress out to get your man or start off with a lil strip tease to get his motor running.
2006-11-01 12:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey,,,If you are being affectionate with him then just kick it up another notch and start rubbing on him with those special things called boobs and caress him all over and he should get the message. If he doesn't get it then come see me.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-01 12:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love it when the lady makes the approach. I find it very exciting.
2006-11-01 12:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋