Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

I love my boyfriend a lot, we live together but theirs something missing inbetween us, maybe were not ment for each other, were always trying to see whos better or who has or had more, i want it to stop already what should i do please give me suggestions

2006-11-01 10:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by girlygirl 2

2006-11-01 10:38:52 · 16 answers · asked by Christmas is coming!! 1

Personally I am OK with my wife going out with the girlls. The only exception is her going to dance halls and dancing with strangers. Don't you think they have another agenda on their minds. Ladies can safely go to concerts, dinner, bowling, card games, etc, as long as the planned activity does not involve the possibility that other men will join them. Trust & jealousy are not the issues here. I feel they are asking for trouble, and there is the possibility that the worst case scenarios could occur. Certainly it is OK to dance with a friend's spouse when everyone is in attendance. I seriously doubt that a married woman ever goes to dance with the prior intention of fooling around. Although, for her to deny the possibility is for her to deny reality. For Instance, she could easily find someone who is a better dancer than her husband, and want him to become her regular dance partner. Even on a non-sexual basis, it would destroy her marriage?

2006-11-01 10:28:01 · 32 answers · asked by goforgold98721 1

I am married for less than ten years and I do not want out of my marriage. But I do want something more/different. I do want another relationship with another woman. I know that I will be judged by the vast majority as a "pig", but the vast majority does not have to live my life. I have a good wife, and I do not want to see her hurt. Yet I do not believe that I should go without the things that I want either. My needs are just a important. I am sure that it is just a "passing fancy", and yet the drive for me to do this is becoming harder for me to push to the side and ignore. All responses are welcome. Thank you for your time!

2006-11-01 10:27:07 · 68 answers · asked by yourluckystar69 1

what was the moment you fell in love with your wife

2006-11-01 10:24:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many children should a woman or man be able to have before they should have to get "fixed". My step childrens mother just had a miscarriage with her 5th child and she just lost custody of her other 4 (two to us ages 15 and 14, and two to her other ex husband ages 4 and 3 due to neglect and being an unfit mother). None of which she pays child support for nor does she visit them but once every couple of months when her conscious is getting the better of her.

My son's father is the same way, 3 children none of which he takes care of (one with me and two with his ex-wife).

Why do we continue to do this and/or allow this behavior to happen?

Why does the government give $350 dollars worth of food stamps to the mother when she doesn't have custody of the kids and never sees them, but refuses to help us because we make too much money?

How can we stop this madness?

Thanks for letting me rant!!!

2006-11-01 10:14:38 · 25 answers · asked by Heather S 4

not cheating but i am tired of not having anyone to talk to and going crazy by myself with my 3 yr old son.

2006-11-01 10:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by ashley b 1

Only serious workers need to respond!! I am on a mission and need some help! I do not wish to hear about not being able to access accounts on the grounds of out-of-state accounts. I have alraedy found out that you can access accounts from other states. I only need a password on the one from sprint, and a address on the one from cingular. Any one up for a challenge? Reason? Possibility of an affair. Need to confirm for sure! Any workers please help!!! This is my last alternative, have tried everything else..

2006-11-01 10:01:14 · 3 answers · asked by Precious1 3

I recently just got out of 5 ½ years relationship. He wanted space that I never really gave him. I cried to his friends for help. I argued with him in front of his house and things I shouldn’t have done that would involve with others. He said I did not respect him. He was upset because he felt I have announced to the world about our breakup but he should’ve understand where I m coming from. Until one day, he finally called me and told me “now that I called, ask me all the question you want to know and stop asking people to people about me. he felt stalked. What hurt even more was he is seeing this girl for about 4 weeks and told me he really likes her a lot. He told me to move on and he can’t see me in his future anymore. I don’t understand how he can move on so quickly. After he told me that, I still call him and trying to be friends with him but he didn’t pick up. He couldn’t forgive me for what I have done to him. Things I have done to him were quit neurotic and obsessive. But only because I love him so much. Is just the last year that were together has gotten so bad. The other 5 years was great. When we were together, he was very faithful and helped me out so much, financially and mentality. In this relationship, I have done more wrong than he had to me. I was never there for him. I always made things worse for him in fact, and never really listen to his problem when he wanted somebody to listen. I hope leaving him alone for a couple of months from now, he would be able to take me as a friend again because he doesn’t even want to talk to me as friend when he already seeing someone. Yet, I’m still alone dwelling on the past. All I ever wanted right now is for him to know that I have changed. But will there ever be a chance for us to get back again. Is it possible that he will get serious with the girl he is seeing now? I’m so worry…

2006-11-01 09:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by lisa 1

I am 44 yrs old and have been married 25 yrs. I workout on weights and am considered to be goodlooking. My wife is on the heavy side but she was a doll when I married her, I ask her to go to the gym with me but she never wants to go. My problem is that lately i have been getting alot of attention from other women. Should I start going out on my wife ? I don't know what I am feeling should I start having affairs?

2006-11-01 09:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a very difficult situation I would like your opinion on. My husband was killed suddenly a few months ago. I loved him very much. He was a good husband, good daddy, good friend. BUT I fell out of love w/ him somewhere along the way before he died. I stayed though for several reasons. This is beside the point. Anyway after about a month of greifing I began to feel myself letting go and I felt guilty. Then one day a friend of mine stopped to check to see how I was doing and if I needed anything. Well, this person was a relative of my husbands and I had felt sexually attracted to him around the time I fell out of love with my husband. Apparently this man felt the same about me. We never acted on it then for obvious reasons.This man is married but not happily. We started seeing eachother but never slept together. We ended it because of moral issues. Am I a bad person? If he ever leaves his wife would it be wrong to persue him again? I really do care for this man. I

2006-11-01 09:50:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 09:45:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today’s culture seems to show the single life as being so sexy. So I ask do you feel that marriage is just as sexy?

2006-11-01 09:43:44 · 15 answers · asked by Ant O 2

After the birth of my son we got pregnant not long after and I miscarried... I dont think that has anything to do with the situation... but when we get ready to have sex I feel fear rush over me and clench up... He dont notice most of the time... but it makes it hard for me to auctually enjoy him and the sex.... What can I do to overcome this fear?

2006-11-01 09:34:58 · 30 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

my boyfriend wants to marrie me but i am not to sure about that because he is 20 and i'm only 16 but i don love him i just need hepl so get back at me

2006-11-01 09:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by MIZ B 1

My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and ever since the birth of our son our sex lives have depleted. I will say I have not always had the sexual drive due to the birth of my son and caring for my son. My husband started viewing pornographic images on the internet. Ive caught this a few times. He chooses to masterbate to porn online rather than come to me for love... he expresses to me that this is a stress reliever for him and sometimes its to much work to get me going.
I dont think its that..... I just dont think he wants to have sex with me anymore... We still do... every now and then and Ive told him that I want for him to come to me instead of the computer.... Havnet seen a change in our sex lives yet.....

2006-11-01 09:23:51 · 23 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

2006-11-01 09:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

This took place in Montana and I need a copy of it because I am worried about my children in his care.

2006-11-01 09:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by DandCMom 1

M wife is pregnant. I don't ask for much but to keep a clean house since I work. Most of the time she doesn't clean, but always goes over to her moms house to help her clean. So, what the hell is the deal?

2006-11-01 09:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by Sleazy P. Martini 1

My husband is a drunk and is verbally abusive< I know that I must leave for my and my son's safety. The problem is that I have no place to go for a long time, I know that I should get a place of my own, but how can I make him leave the house that belongs to both of us. My son is from a previous marriage. There is too much involved to speak of. Bottom line...How do I get him out of the house till I can sell the house and finalise the divorce?

2006-11-01 09:15:03 · 9 answers · asked by tdybear 1

If so, how often?

2006-11-01 09:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

my parents were married for 17 years. All those years my mom cheated on my dad with many different men and women. Finally about 9 years ago my parents divorced my mom leaving my dad for a women. My mom abused me for all of my childhood, and once my parents divorce and she got with her girlfriend, her gf did it even worse to me. She broke my jaw with bat and a whole bunch of other things. That stuff never really mattered to me because i wanted to protect my sisters. But now i have moved out with my dad, and i can no longer protect them. Chris {gf} never touched my sisters when i was there, but im scared since im not, she will. My sisters come over all the time with bruises and such but i cant do anything because are scared to talk. should i confront her? but i dont want to get my sisters in more trouble. What should i do? Btw my mom and her gf are pathological liers.

2006-11-01 09:08:08 · 18 answers · asked by raelynn 3

of cheating on my husband? i've never acted on any of these thoughts, well, since i've been married. i have cheated on boyfriends in the past. but, seriously. why can't i quit plotting, or whatever?

2006-11-01 09:06:38 · 24 answers · asked by practicalwizard 6

Why or why not?

2006-11-01 09:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by truthyness 7

My husband & I have been together for 13 years married for 3. We have 2 beautiful children and all he does is work maybe 40 hours a week and play on his computer all night. He comes up for dinner but goes back downstairs. His best friend from grade school is over practically everynight. He never listens to me or helps me with the kids. He sleeps on the couch and it has been 6 months since we were last sexually intimate. I work 40 hours a week come home and take care of the kids and dinner the dogs and the house. I feel I don't know him anymore.On weekends he is either playing on the computer or going riding on his dirt bike or playing paintball with his friends. It has become more of a roomate situation with help of finances than a marriage. I feel soo alone. He refuses to go to marriage counseling. What can I do to get his attention again? Please help! Any suggestions? Before the kids it was all about me & him & after well lets just say I fell off of his radar. I am 25 he is 27.

2006-11-01 08:55:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend recently divorced his wife of ten years. He had an affair - he said his wife and him had grown apart and his needs were not being met in the relationship. He is moving in with the other woman next month. He has only been seeing her 7 months and divorced only 3. I am worried about him. This woman is the total opposite of his ex. He seems to have forgotten about his kids. He spends very little time with them. He seems to be totally wrapped up in this woman. He even says that his relationship is a lot better than the one with his ex because he can go out and have fun whenever he wants. I guess he forgot that his ex is home with the kids. This new woman even tells him how to dress! Is this normal behaviour for a newly divorced man? I want to tell him to slow down but it will do no good - he is not listening. Then he makes comments about how it will hurt when his ex moves on. I think the guy is living in a dream world that is going to come crashing down. What do I say to him?

2006-11-01 08:50:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Over the time we have been married I have slowly eroded her trust and she feel resentment towards me. She has decided to end and leave but says she still loves me and maybe we can resolve it. It has taken something this bad to show me how much of a bad husband Ive been. Ive started down the path of change. Ive re written my values and placed them on the wall to see every morning. She can see i am really making an effort but she is worried that its too little too late. Im crying every morning and feel quite alone. I realise that I've never really opened up to my wife or let her in, but now Im willing to she doesnt want to listen. I need help her, Im a broken man who wants the love of his life back. Is it too late for me? Im trying to help her financially, she cant afford to move or child support, to me and her previous husband. But all my efforts are falling on deaf ears. I dont want to give up on something that should and can be great. How can I make her see?

2006-11-01 08:48:01 · 28 answers · asked by changedmanwanting 1

hey our bed has gotten really squeaky, anyone got any solutions for that? its ruining my ... life!!

2006-11-01 08:43:20 · 25 answers · asked by countrygalsline 2

My husband and I are getting a divorce which he asked for and I am more than happy to give him. He has done horriable things to me and I should hate him and a part of me does but in the end I wonder why he would treat me this way? I mean he had drug problems, is menatally abusive and sometime physically abusive, controlling and all that stuff but for some reason I cant hate him. More than that I hate that he wont visit our newborn son. I dont know why I care that he misses his supervised visits, I dont know how to stop caring or worring about what he thinks or if I am wrong. I am scared to go to court and he gets the judge to think I am doing something wrong too. Anyone got ideas?? Dont get me wrong I dont want him back and I dont want my son to be around him unsupervised I just dont understand why he wont see him. I am happy to be out of the chaos but I still wonder what he is doing, if he is sober, if he is going to come banging on the door to fight....all that I know its not normal

2006-11-01 08:41:19 · 10 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2

I hear all these guys on heresay if there dude is masterbateing that she needs to do better in bed!!!! I dont think so guys! It is a well known fact that men even married masterbate and yes they get addicted to it over a woman! If they do it alot the vagina doesnt have the same pressure they apply themselves so come on woman tell the guys u wont listen to them !

2006-11-01 08:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by jessy 3