my boyfriend wants to marrie me but i am not to sure about that because he is 20 and i'm only 16 but i don love him i just need hepl so get back at me
2006-11-01 09:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by MIZ B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hun wait
your just 16 you have your whole life ahead of you ..
do you honestly think you want to spend the rest of your life with is guy .. you still in school and lest i hope you are ... I'm 16 too and i love my boyfriend dearly and stuff but still you should want on get married... if you believe on that's the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with want tell after you graduate
....... just think about it hun
2006-11-01 09:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T you are to young, You don't love him, why would you even think of doing this? Home life terrible? Marriage is not a way out it's might be just a step deeper into the pooh, then you might be in already, Trust me, there is help out there if you need it, good help. Don't get married, it's harder to get out than you think. You've got your whole life ahead of you, don't throw it away at 16.
2006-11-01 09:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by tdybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even considering marriage at 16?! Don't do it. You will regret it. I got married when I was 16 and divorced when I was 18. don't waste your time and throw away the upcoming opportunities in your life.
2006-11-01 09:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by caseofyou2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are supposed to say "no" if he proposes. YOu are TOO YOUNG to be thinking about marriage. And it is most likely ILLEGAL for you to do so at this age.
Aside from the fact that if you are sleeping together, it is statutory rape as he is over 18 and you are still a minor.
please consider dating boys your own age, and focusing on finishing high school. You don't need to be thinking about marriage at 16.
2006-11-01 09:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 16, I don't think you have really had a chance to live your life yet.You have so many things ahead of you to do, getting married at your age is likely going to cut down a lot on your options for your life. Why the rush? Believe me, it isn't all it's cracked up to be (growing up & getting older). :)
2006-11-01 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right not to be sure your far too young if he loves you as much as he says he does he will wait until your ready - concentrate on your family friends and school you'll have plenty of time to get married
2006-11-01 09:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!!!!That would be absolutely the most ridiculous thing I can think for you to do in this day and age!
2006-11-01 09:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Littlebit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it...you are way too young....enjoy life and marry someone who you love!
2006-11-01 10:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, you have so much ahead for you. Wait until you find the one you love.
2006-11-01 09:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by corinasanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never marry someone you dont love because it nevr lasts.
2006-11-01 09:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋